Apologize for what? Pat was ill and probably undergoing some mental issues. I used to watch her pressers and how she railed on the players way beyond even Geno type insults. Then I found some old pressers and she was tough but she did not throw players under the bus. She was not insulting beyond reason. Be petty isn't becoming.
Take a look at her comments after they lost to Melanie Balcomb's Xavier team in the NCAA's, early 2000's. She was pissed, and entirely threw her whole team under the bus. It was all their fault...nothing to do with coaching. Her remarks were pretty scathing.
What happened to her was certainly tragic. I have sympathy for her and her family having to go through that, but I'm not about to excuse her for the ridiculous attempts she made to smear our program with innuendo just because she was pissed that Maya turned her down.
I think Theresa Grentz said it best after her Illinois team got clocked by Tenn. and UCONN during a relatively brief stretch of their schedule one season. Pat used a full court press against them in the last couple minutes of a game they already led by 50+ points. When asked about it after the UCONN game, her response was, "Geno is a gentlemen", inferring a lack of respect for Pat's late game tactics, which resulted in running up an already bloated score. Pat's response after their game was that it gave her a chance to work on their full court press. Really?