By all rational accounts, both "spygate" and "deflategate" are both about rules that every team was in violation of in some way. The only rule broken in spygate was the LOCATION of the camera. Filming from field level is ok, from above is not. As you say, "other teams did it". Same with the lax enforcement of the football inflation specs. Every team does what they can to get the balls the way they like them.
The only real difference here is who likes Bill Belichick and who doesn't.
And considering you just gave John Wooden a pass for a booster paying his players, I'd say you'd fit right in.
You also realize that because the Patriots organization was so pissed at the nonsensical "spygate" fallout that they came out and put up the only 16-0 regular season in NFL history ?
Good lord. People with an ax to grind are annoying.