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I've been a coach in sports for many years at every level you can imagine.
Right now, I am imagining professional sports.
I've been a coach in sports for many years at every level you can imagine.
I kinda wish all this vagueness would stop and someone would just fill the rest of us in on what the hell happened so we can come to our own conclusions. Otherwise, what's the freaking point of starting a thread.
gery...He was a , what else do you need to know? He was maniacal in his criticism of a player and then douched his dad. When the players dad offered an olive branch, he douched him again. It's a clear cut case of douchery.
Maybe we should round up all of the people that have bashed Lyle on the board. Wonder what the intersection is between that group and the group currently chastising Carl.
[q79, post: 734643, member: 1651"]I kinda wish all this vagueness would stop and someone would just fill the rest of us in on what the hell happened so we can come to our own conclusions. Otherwise, what's the freaking point of starting a thread.
He's not being ripped for bashing McCombs. He's being ripped for the way he knowingly interacted with a parent.
Plus, some people have an odd sense of what is considered bashing players here.
Do a post search on Carl Spackler and go to the thread that's titled "Well, it's a full fledged disaster..."What was the post that everyone is referring to?
Do a post search on Carl Spackler and go to the thread that's titled "Well, it's a full fledged disaster..."
That isn't entirely clear by reading the posts. I did see the initial thread so I'm sure some are piling on for that interaction. Some are just piling on.
once you're labled, it's hard to shed from it, once a , always a . Good luck with that
I agree with the piling on. I actually like Spackler. I also love giving him a hard because he earns it.
That thread led to another thread that was deleted afterwards, in which Lyle Sr. confronted Carl and Carl went back at him.
I imagine we keep losing at it will just keep getting worse around here.
The only people missing were Lord and Lady Crapper.
Carl, with his lifetime of coaching at all levels, was able to zoom in to a major problem that most of us had completely ignored.
Namely, how the players show emotion after 50+ yards plays on offense.
Apparently, other people weren't as smart as Carl and thought we had other, more pressing issues.
(I think this is how it played out in his mind)
It's time for @fakecarlspackler.
Clearly you are smart enough to know what Carl was talking about, and it wasn't explicitly that. It was that, as as symptom for one of many things ailing this team (and I would argue the "me-me-me" culture of sports in general). If that's what you got out of Carl's rant, I'm not sure I can help you.
Clearly you are smart enough to know what Carl was talking about, and it wasn't explicitly that. It was that, as as symptom for one of many things ailing this team (and I would argue the "me-me-me" culture of sports in general). If that's what you got out of Carl's rant, I'm not sure I can help you.
And the bottom line is that once a poster is made aware that he is engaging with a family member of the player he is criticizing, he should back off, even if he feels his criticism is warranted. Continuing the argument falls under the classification of douchery...
...and I like Carl, too...
That is 100% a fair point of view. I saw the exchange and I didn't feel that Carl was impolite. In fact, he was far more polite to Lyle Sr. than he was in writing what he initially did regarding Lyle. I'm just not so sure that I agree with most of you with regards to the distinction between:
1) Writing a bunch of things about players, when we "know" that parents/friends of said players are on the board (lurking if not posting).
2) Having an on-board disagreement directly with parents/friends of players.
Most here are arguing that #1 is ok, but #2 turns you into a .
I would argue that #2 is ok as long as you are being civil about it.
As to #1, I personally try to temper my comments re: individual players because I think the fact that there isn't a family member there to argue with doesn't mean that they aren't reading what is written.
So, if Carl is a , he is a for going overboard with #1. Getting on him for his banter with Lyle Sr. makes people feel better, but let's not act like the lack of "face-to-face" arguments with players' families on the board makes this a welcome environment for players' families. There is a reason that most of them don't post here. I would imagine that most of them are smart enough to see through the "Good luck to your son" in one thread by poster X, while poster X is ripping the same player in another thread (which presumably is ok because the parent didn't post in that particular thread).
BTW - I'm not saying this is a solvable issue on a public board. I just find some of the logic strained.


I hear ya. But it might have been a bit overboard when Puppy offered to have Carl over to the parents' tailgate, and Carl treated it like he was about to get shanked in the parking lot...![]()
Right. But that conversation happened "within" the thread entitled "Carl - stop being a "...
Maybe we should round up all of the people that have bashed Lyle on the board. Wonder what the intersection is between that group and the group currently chastising Carl.