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Ben Gordon: “Where Is My Mind”

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I see this as Ben telling his story directly to us, instead of through an SI drone like the article above. That's why the Player's Tribune exists. It's rawness may have alarmed you but read the SI article and then re-read Ben's PT again. Should relieve some of your concern my friend. Good looking out though.
 
Whoa....damn, I am glad he wrote that. Glad he got arrested. Damn.

Alarming is the the right word. We see people, especially famous people, slide toward the edge and we laugh it off or ignore it. To read a description of what his descent was....alarming.
 
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BG is my favorite player we've had (see avy). In the recent trend of mental health awareness and transparency from athletes, this is one of the more harrowing experiences I've read. It's heartbreaking what people's own brain can put them through. The human mind is one hell of a mystery. I hope he's found permanent peace and a support system that will work for the rest of his life.
 
According to google. he still has a net worth of $20 million. At least he didn't end up broke. It's a lot easier to go down a difficult path when you don't have resources to help with medical bills. Glad he got help before it was too late.


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God Benny was so nasty back in 04. God I miss those days. Hurts extra this time of year when we should be talking about if we’re going to be a 1seed. Instead we re discussing running table against the Tulanes of the world to possibly sneak an NIT bid. Geez.
 
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How Ben G. articulates his mental state as a basketball player and the contrast to his outward demeanor on the court was fascinating. Especially with all his subsequent mental health issues.

Thanks for sharing. Killer mindset on the court.
 
Ben's gonna save lives with this. Not just his own. The stuff he's going through, millions of people go through it every day.

Can't wait to get him back here for a game so he can get a huge ovation and remember how much he's loved here. His story can teach so much to the team, too.
 
One of the best descriptions of a mind in distress I've read. There are so many out there where he was. And he is correct - society still isn't allowing that admission of needing help. I worked in mental health for years - that recognition of oneself is amazing when it happens.
I loved the way he described his on court persona - always had that outward calm and aloofness. Who knew it was a cover for the turmoil inside. Can't believe he went as long as he did keeping the turmoil hidden.
Wish you the best Ben - glad you are talking about it - maybe it will help others realize it is ok to admit you can't do it alone .
 
Really a nice piece to help us understand what went on with him. What’s going on. Kudos to Ben for having the courage to put himself out there in this way. Maybe he can help others.
 
Very powerful article and introspection. How many people get out of the cycle or loop as he calls it. He should be able help other people.
 
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Beautiful piece. Really illuminating.

Once you've hit the point of your mental illness that you can talk about it, it usually means you aren't in the worst of it. Which is great.

It is especially inspiring because so many Black Americans are suffering under the stigma of not being able to get mental health help. With any luck being this open will help inspire others to seek the help they need.

I hope he is doing okay and finds peace.
 
superjohn said:
Ben Gordon will save some lives with this. His openness is amazing.
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Superjohn, you're 100% right with this. People are ashamed of mental health. Afraid to call out for help. I hope that a person with his status will show people, and give them the courage, that it's OK to be honest about needing to seek help. Knowing when to seek help, knowing when you've battled the demon long enough, knowing that you're too tired and weary to fight anymore on your own. That's honesty and truth. Asking for help, that's courageous. Really proud of Ben.
 
this piece will give strength to those who need it - well done, BG.

thankful he got the help he needs. he's one of our own
 
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I've never been in that state so it's tough to understand. But reading his piece paints a picture that you can see how depression takes hold of someone. That was enlightening.
 
Irish Loop said:
Beautiful piece. Really illuminating.

Once you've hit the point of your mental illness that you can talk about it, it usually means you aren't in the worst of it. Which is great.

It is especially inspiring because so many Black Americans are suffering under the stigma of not being able to get mental health help. With any luck being this open will help inspire others to seek the help they need.

I hope he is doing okay and finds peace.
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Unfortunately not just Black Americans -
 
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Tragic, and I'm happy he has learned to cope with it. Extremely courageous, but that's Ben Gordon. Prayers for a peaceful life.
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Tragic? Nah.

Tragic would be if he had jumped.
Tragic would be if he had not gotten arrested.
Tragic would be if he did not find an outlet.
Tragic would be if he did not write this piece.
 
I remember when I played CYO trying to walk like Ben Gordon. This guy was my hero when I was a kid. Hope he does well. Seems like he is looking to help others as well.
 
What’s awful is how fans and coaches and media can talk about a guy like himabout his demeanor on the court and inadvertently contribute to his feelings, anxiety etc get worse. Maybe they can celebrate NBE next yr with a Ben Gordon night. I totally get zoning out in a roomful of people but picking up on every quirky behavior of others. That really struck me when he said that. I do I have a hard time focusing gor long periods. Despite the corrupt NCAA how do you not fall in love with this program and the players involved over and over again?!?! Geezo.
 
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