First, you have to know something about Gene........he is one of the most insecure, Napoleon-esque complex guys you'll ever meet. Very few people like him. I honestly think he'd die if he went 3 minutes without mocking someone or belittling someone through sarcasm. Second, he carries a big chip on his shoulder and an over-inflated sense of self-worth. Every bit of what he said was for the purpose of (a) making BC seem a lot more important than the are, and (b) kicking UConn while they were down. The only thing he said that was spot on was that ESPN was (to an extent) driving the boat. People actually read too much into that comment though, b/c it would be illogical to think they wouldn't at least have a hand on the steering wheel. You're not going to haul off and expand w/o getting insight from the very person who pays your bills.
This actually ties into ND, which I've mentioned ad nauseum. ESPN does not want to miss out on the opportunity to control ND's tv rights. So, they absolutely were giving direction as to whom to go after and whom not to. My commentary about the ACC expanding w/ Notre Dame in mind was not meant to imply it was one unified voice, but rather that's the voice that won out. There are plenty of programs that couldn't care jack diddly squat about ND joining the ACC. But, with ESPN's direction, they were building a case for ND. Why do you think ESPN decided against West Virginia? WVU has better TV #s, better fan support, and a wider geographic TV representation than Pitt or Syracuse. Yeah, a lot of people like to say academics, and that certainly was a strike against them. But, WVU doesn't get ND. Neither does Rutgers. Neither does Louisville. Neither does Kansas (who practically threw themselves at the ACC in 2010 - behind closed doors of course). I'm not going to say there weren't other factors that were considered beyond simply ND. But, they were the primary focus. And yes, it is my opinion, but I do believe, based on what I've seen and heard, had UConn had a long-term series with ND instead of Syracuse, they would have gotten the extra votes instead of Syracuse. ND was used a discussion point in their meetings, and it certainly was a focus of ESPN's POV.
As for Pitt, I don't know if they were in the original discussion or not, b/c we weren't brought in until after they'd already settled on which teams to do feasibility studies on. But I do know that Pitt was headed to the Big XII with WVU (tentatively) up until Boren (the OU pres) developed diarrhea of the mouth around Aug/Sept '11. The Big XII had been working that one hard. But, once Boren come out about forming a committee to look into leaving the Big XII w/o Texas, that killed Pitt & the Big XII. They then reached out to the ACC themselves. Where they initially ranked in all of this, I don't know.
As for the ACC wanting Syracuse 8 years ago...........you're right. But, a lot changes in 8 years. 8 years ago, Syracuse was coming off of a NC in basketball, and had had 9 ranked teams over the previous decade and a half in football. They'd won 3 conference championships over the prior half-decade, and had had multiple top 10 teams. They were cranking! But, fast forward and UConn, who'd been a nobody, is all of a sudden a growing force in the BE, and Syracuse is one of the worst football programs in college football. There are a lot of reason to pick UConn over Syracuse. So then, why did they get the nod over UConn? There is no plausible answer. TVs aren't better. Regional dominance isn't better. Fan support isn't better. On field & on court production isn't better. (Heck, Syracuse hasn't won the BE in basketball in 7 years, 6 at the time.) The tipping point from what I understand, was ND. BC has one vote. DeFilippo's comments about stopping UConn from coming into the conference were a lot like a scrawny nerd saying he stopped a burglar, all the while ignoring his dad standing behind him w/ a sawed off shotgun.
Also, ESPN's desire was to kill off the BE, then they'd have told the ACC to grab UConn and Rutgers (or WVU). But, they baited the hook for ND, then stepped back and waited. Nothing more, nothing less. Now, fwiw, I do think (and this part is opinion) that when the BE decided to try to play other networks off ESPN to drive up the price of their contract, that ESPN didn't like the idea of paying that much $$$ for that much dead weight. And, no matter how you want to spin it, you have to admit, there's a lot of dead weight in the BE. DePaul, Providence, and Seton Hall all add very, very, very little value to the BE's contract (and there are a couple more you could add to that as well). Teams would actually make more $$$ individually just by cutting them. From a financial perspective, it certainly makes sense to support the ACC's desire to take a few teams from the BE, b/c you can take the cream from the BE, pay a little more to the ACC, and ding the BE significantly due to the loss of value. Plus, it totally undermined the BE's negotiating power. Whomever ends up signing the BE will sign them for pennies on the dollar (on a per team basis). Those 3 losses will be pretty significant financially. But, the MO wasn't to kill off the BE, but rather strengthen their only fully in house brand, the ACC. The icing on top is just that ESPN will end up spending a lot less for the new ACC/BE than they would the old ACC/BE.