I'm never disappointed in how guys do in the NBA. Who am I to be disappointed in how other men run their lives? Would they be disappointed in me? Or you? Are you still planted in a cube farm in middle management? Never did go back to get that MBA?
Not sure why we put so much worth on how guys do in the NBA. Is it bragging rights? Is it vicarious success? Do we all have some sort of weird, reverse, fan-based Munchhausen's by proxy?
Why do we also think that these guys want what we want? That is, to be as successful as possible as basketball players? How many normal people would get to a few million a year and decide to coast? Why kill yourself? To be the greatest? Meh. Look at it this way. In 60 years, there won't be 5 guys in the NBA today who are known to fans in 2072. There might not be any. So what would Oak be doing killing himself to get better? Make a few more mill? Finish a hundred places higher on the all-time scoring list? What's the point? To be the best only for the purpose of being the best? Isn't that masturbation?
Thabeet? Somebody said his problem in the NBA was that he . . . . whatever. No D. No O. No boards. It's all wrong.
Thabeet is only missing a single element to being a great NBA player. If you dissected his game and Olajuwon's game, you'd see what it is - passion. The Hakeem wanted it. Badly. And he worked extremely hard to get it. And he got it. Fame, fortune, rings. Thabeet could give a duck less about it. He got his money. He's set for life. He's a national hero in his home country. He doubled his nation's net worth. Why the duck would he want to spend all his free time getting hammered by angry 7 foot guys who want his to swallow his teeth?
If a guy wants it very badly, and doesn't make it. I feel bad for him, but not disappointed in him or disappointed that my own vision wasn't fulfilled. If a guy doesn't make it and really doesn't care too much - then he's better off.
Living well starts and ends with these two things:
1. Change what you can control to be as close to the person you want to be as possible.
2. Be happy with who you are.