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IAM. You say you'd heard a lot of BS about Wes because he didn't come around anymore? I assume you are talking about the UCONN campus. He returned a few years later after he came back from San Francisco. He told me that everything was different. The campus was in a turmoil.Rioting students had taken over the administration bldg. several students spit and threw paper balls at his "shiny yellow Jaguar." He was no longer a part of the student body and he felt a little afraid,similar to how many Vietnam Vets must have felt.
Even the Fieldhouse had changed. The student seats had been moved back,but most upsetting to him was the missing gym floor with a big C in the middle. It had been sold to Choate Rosemary prep. by Homer Babbidge,the same president who refused to let the '67 team attend the NIT,after they'd won an invitation. (See Hoop Tales book.) What upset Wes most was the fact that his beloved Coach Shabel had moved on to University of Penn. He mainly left because of a lack of adm. support,also in Hoop Tales,by the way, a very well written & researched book!
He visited Lou's, now Pub 32 ,and spent the day with Ally John,a father figure to him for 4 years. He'd been hoping to reconnect with Lou's daughter,Kerry,only to discover she was married.
SO...there was nothing left for him there. When a, fundraising game was organized for an ex-teammate who'd been hit by a car while helping a motorist on the highway,Wes played,even went on Arnold Dean's sports talk (ch.3) to promote this game, ? '72 or "73.
When invited by Coach Dee Rowe to be at the Civic Center game when his record was broken by Tony Hanson, Wes was thrilled! He loved every minute of it,and introduced me to many "special people."
The last game at the Fieldhouse? He wasn't invited.
The first game at the new Gampel? He wasn't invited.
He invited himself to a Civic center game when the All-Century Team was to be presented, which was the start of a very special friendship with Coach Rowe. From that night on, we attended approx. 3 games/year.
We,ve had a very full life,lots of travel,trips to Poughkeepsie,Wes' many hobbies....He taught himself so much,to name a few... Car repairing,roofing,furniture making,gardening. He took LSATs and got a 620 score without studying,but decided he really didn't want to practice law.Wes studied Real Estate (Tunxis CC ,free on the GI Bill) just before we bought our first home. He practiced the 3 R's : Respect,Responsibilityand mostly Resourcefulness! Much of the '80's & '90's were spent with our children,his hobbies and of course,Me!
Wes made everything fun,and I consider myself a very lucky woman to have had the past #44 years with such a "Wonderful" Man!
And he was a lucky man it would seem. I am a fan of Wes through my dad started going to the Field House soon after he left but did get to see him when he traveled with an "all star" team to play against local semi-pro teams and man could he shoot the ball. But most of us knew little about Wes and you have brought some wonderful stories of the man, I for one thank you. He will be missed as a Great Husky and a great husband, father and person to you I am sure. Happy Mothers Day to you………..I am sure not an easy one for now!