OT: Tough times with weather, Covid, etc for many of us.

[MSGRET]

Good luck to you sir. I never had a UTI, but my wife has bouts and they are not nice.

Update, I was cleared last Thursday by my Urologist, no UTI. Went out Thursday night and lost $300 on the Pai Gow tables. Went out again on Saturday night and won $400 on the Pai Gow tables and another $200 on the slots. It felt good to get out of the house and talk with other players.

 

[UcMiami]

Fun reading everyone's stories.
Retired as soon as the affordable care act passed as I have type 2 diabetes and could not have gotten private insurance before (just transitioned onto Medicare.) For me it has been a lot of reading, computer surfing, and watching the garden grow. I get out once or twice a week to pick up mail and do shopping and here in Storrs, CT I have been impressed that I have yet to see an unmasked face since March. I am significantly worried about Uconn students flooding town in the next weeks, but I have a bolthole in central NH on the Maine border that I can run to. Tiny town that gets tinier post August.

I miss my usual travel - have always self toured, but my sister swears by OAT - tempted to give it a whirl when I feel safer about this disease. Luckily I too had made a winter trip to visit another sister who lives on Maui in late Feb just as people were beginning to notice what was happening in Asia. I did just go to VT for a care-giving visit to a cousin near Mt. Ascutney - she had just had a knee replacement and her husband is an ER doctor and works 24 hour shifts. It was a really fun visit - the cousin is recovering well, and socializing with anyone was strange after being basically a hermit for 5 months.

 

[Steelerone]

Hey ladies and gentlemen, today was a great day of discovery. A friend told us about a sub place that opened in Bristol, Ct. called Jersey Mike's. Went there for lunch and got the Jersey Mike's Philly Cheese steak. One of the best I have ever tasted. Isn't it great when you try something new and can't wait to go back. My only mistake was getting the Regular. Darn. They had the Giant. Just another reason to know God loves us.

 

[Steelerone]

Update, I was cleared last Thursday by my Urologist, no UTI. Went out Thursday night and lost $300 on the Pai Gow tables. Went out again on Saturday night and won $400 on the Pai Gow tables and another $200 on the slots. It felt good to get out of the house and talk with other players.

MSGRET, I've always played seven card stud at the casino. One time while I was there I watched some people playing Pai Gow. One of the guys had a paper bag full of money and he kept pulling it out and betting. I might be a few dollars off but I think he dropped about thirty thousand. My only thought was, "Is he really going to try going home after this?"

 

[Steelerone]

Twice retired, military in 1997 and real estate in 2017. I got rid of all my investment properties back in 04 and was glad that I did, the bottom fell out and would have lost a lot of money. My wife is still working at one of the casino's, but is thinking about retiring at the end of the year. I had a tumor removed from my bladder on 6/16, non-benign, but have been back to the emergency room 4 times. They finally diagnosed that I had UTI and have been on antibiotics for over two weeks. Have only been to my local casino twice and the last time was 6/8. I had to self-quarantine on 6/10 until the operation, then was on 10 day self-quarantine after the operation. After that I've been too sick to go anywhere, and don't want to take a chance to catch anything while I'm ill from the UTI. I'm kind of lucky because I have my military retirement, military disability, and Social Security, so we're not hurting like so many others, but I do wish I could get out of the house and do something. I see the Urologist tomorrow morning and hopefully get the okay to go have some fun.

MSGRET, My heart goes out to you. One of our very dearest friends has had almost the identical problem that you have been dealing with. Hang in there and hope you win big when you hit the casino.

 

[Fairfield Fan]

My wife and I are both at risk, cancer survivor and immunocompromised. So we're both staying home mostly, We're lucky to be in Connecticut, which has achieved now one of the lowest rates of new infections in the country. But here in southwestern Connecticut, people are getting very blasé. Very few in the parks wear masks anymore, despite the fact that new infections in Fairfield County are rising, and we have one of the highest rates of new infections in the New York metropolitan area.

Went to Boston and everyone was wearing a mask. Went to a borough of New York City, and everyone on the street was wearing a mask. Here almost no one.

But so far we're healthy and alive. Fingers crossed. But a lot of dread of what happens in the fall.

 

[huskeynut]

The wife and I are doing well down here in central Florida. We are both retired, music teachers, and live in a beautiful 55+ community.

First week in March everything got shut down. All activities and clubs cancelled until further notice. Haven't had a band rehearsal for either band I play in since the lockdown. The 3 restaurants in the community have finally reopened at 50% capacity. At least they will survive financially. The powers that be allowed our Monday and Friday farmers market back in. Masks must be worn. They also opened up the pools (all 14 of them) with limitations. Staff monitor how many can be a pool. The two big amenitiy centers are open so people can use the equipment. There are specific hours when only people with masks can use the equipment. Pickelball and tennis courts are open again. Everything else, buildings and 250+ clubs still shut down. No word on when these will be allowed to open and/ or resume.

People are getting very restless in the community. They want to see and hear of a plan to reopen from the ownership (builder). No word.

So they wife and I exercise daily. She either walks 4 miles, bikes 6+ miles or goes across the street to the fitness gym. I bike about 6 miles a day around the community. The plus here is that 3 weeks ago we purchased new bikes. Man I can I bike now. Sold the old bikes in 5 hours!!! This time of year, only bike in the mornings before 9 AM.

The wife is back to playing Saturday and Sunday masses at the church. She still rehearses her choir every week via Zoom.

I still practice the horn every day. I added learning to play the bass. Not doing to bad. Next up is getting the guitar playing going again.

The big negative was our sons from CT were supposed to come down to visit and go to Disney. That didn't happen. So we do a lot of Facetime. Hopefully next year. They both got furloughed for about 12 weeks. They were non-essential jobs according to Cuomo and Lamont.

 

[MSGRET]

The wife and I are doing well down here in central Florida. We are both retired, music teachers, and live in a beautiful 55+ community.

First week in March everything got shut down. All activities and clubs cancelled until further notice. Haven't had a band rehearsal for either band I play in since the lockdown. The 3 restaurants in the community have finally reopened at 50% capacity. At least they will survive financially. The powers that be allowed our Monday and Friday farmers market back in. Masks must be worn. They also opened up the pools (all 14 of them) with limitations. Staff monitor how many can be a pool. The two big amenitiy centers are open so people can use the equipment. There are specific hours when only people with masks can use the equipment. Pickelball and tennis courts are open again. Everything else, buildings and 250+ clubs still shut down. No word on when these will be allowed to open and/ or resume.

People are getting very restless in the community. They want to see and hear of a plan to reopen from the ownership (builder). No word.

So they wife and I exercise daily. She either walks 4 miles, bikes 6+ miles or goes across the street to the fitness gym. I bike about 6 miles a day around the community. The plus here is that 3 weeks ago we purchased new bikes. Man I can I bike now. Sold the old bikes in 5 hours!!! This time of year, only bike in the mornings before 9 AM.

The wife is back to playing Saturday and Sunday masses at the church. She still rehearses her choir every week via Zoom.

I still practice the horn every day. I added learning to play the bass. Not doing to bad. Next up is getting the guitar playing going again.

The big negative was our sons from CT were supposed to come down to visit and go to Disney. That didn't happen. So we do a lot of Facetime. Hopefully next year. They both got furloughed for about 12 weeks. They were non-essential jobs according to Cuomo and Lamont.

It's hard to bike ride out here in Vegas, 108 degrees or higher for the last two weeks. Then you have all the idiots out on the road driving and not looking out for others. I haven't ridden a bike in over 4 years since I was almost ran over by a couple of cars and that was just in my neighborhood.

 

[winlots]

Update, I was cleared last Thursday by my Urologist, no UTI. Went out Thursday night and lost $300 on the Pai Gow tables. Went out again on Saturday night and won $400 on the Pai Gow tables and another $200 on the slots. It felt good to get out of the house and talk with other players.

MSGRET: According to my diminishing math skills, and insufficient data, suggest you stick with the slots for now on balance.

 

[KnightBridgeAZ]

Hey ladies and gentlemen, today was a great day of discovery. A friend told us about a sub place that opened in Bristol, Ct. called Jersey Mike's. Went there for lunch and got the Jersey Mike's Philly Cheese steak. One of the best I have ever tasted. Isn't it great when you try something new and can't wait to go back. My only mistake was getting the Regular. Darn. They had the Giant. Just another reason to know God loves us.

We have a number of Jersey Mike's here in Tucson. They do a nice Cheese Steak (no cheese on it for me) and before she was medically told "no cold cuts" my wife liked their Italian sub. My sister-in-law outside Austin has been enjoying them, as well, as it is one of the few restaurants near where she has moved.

Good Cheese Steaks (bread, bagels, pizza, etc.) are tough out of the NYC / Philly area where we lived for so long. There is a fellow from Philly who opened a couple stores called Hogie House (his sign-maker misspelled it and he went with it) in Tucson that some locals like (never been) - and the 2 stand-alone that we tried, while both good (one had a hot loin of pork!!! sub) actually were not as good as Jersey Mike's, either. Just wish Jersey Mike's did fries. I prefer fries to chips with a sub. Oh, well.

 

[Ozimoto]

Being a bit younger than many on here, I have continued to work since engineering is considered an essential service. I have participated in on line meetings on about seven different web meeting platforms.

Things are getting a little dicey as our main client, the state of Maryland, is having financial issues due to reduced tax revenues for transportation projects and unemployment payment obligations. It will be a rough couple of years.

 

[Magy Cannon]

As a farmer, my daily work has not changed. However, the closest farm supply store closed all but their warehouse because several employees got the virus. One backs up to the warehouse; tells a masked employee what to put in the bed of the pick-up; then receives a bill at the end of the month. Missing church and happy hour though; and parties and gatherings of friends. Trip to NOLA to the women's final 4 was canceled; and also an April trip to Charleston. No trips planned for the rest of the year either.

 

[vtcwbuff]

For Vermont, if you are from a county with low rates, no quarantine is required. There’s a list on their state website. Hubs and I were there a couple of weeks back (Isle La Motte) and it was heaven.

Yes it is. My mother was born there. We stay with friends just a few miles further south on the lake.

Hey VTC, we're up in Vermont; been here mostly since January...Quite retired (81) but working on a book.

We enjoy traveling, skiing in the Winter and sailing in the summer...This year blew a big hole in our plans. My wife convinced me not to put the boat in the water this season in Westbook Ct (wonderful yard).

Anyway, I've been thinking of getting rid of the cruising-style 34 that we now own and downsizing to day sailing on a Hobie Getaway...Have a teriff place to store and bop around in...Spanish Wells, Bahamas...cute town, great deserted beaches...of course, can't go there now, so we wait...

We've spent at least three months in Italy, the last few seasons...either Fall or Spring but again, impossible to get there now...I'd be willing to quarantine, but no go.

I do have a lovely long term rental lined in Umbria; an old stone house amongst, farms, villages, mountains, and not far from moderate sized cities; Perugia, Sienna and Arezzo (that we've never been to).

A few words about the inequity in today's world...I am acutely aware that enjoying (what in the old days) what would have been considered a "normal" middle class retirement is a bridge too far for many...and that we're entering what I refer to as a split screen economy...one of my sons is working remotely in his mom's country house and dong just fine...my other son in the arts, is unemployed and broke with few prospects....

We're not "rich" by any standard; never got close to 200k ...but fortunate, I suppose...pension, unheard of cheap rent in town (my son's hanging there now, rent-free). a house in the country that almost pays for itself...way too big... two permanent tenants.
Great health, wrap-around plan from New York City...

Bottom line: not too much to worry about...my dad (bless his soul) even paid for the kid's college. And a frugal, Chinese wife, who watches every centime.

We are the last of the old-time pensioneers...I truly pity the 401K generation.

So, there's nothing, really to save for...so for the most part, we don't.

But I am completely aware that the lack of comprehensive retirement packages, now putting the onus on the individual will lead to a future catastrophe around the time we check out.

And that's for the middle-class...For the bottom 30%, many without even the prospects of employment...simply adequate food to eat and putting a roof over one's head is a struggle, that's difficult to contemplate.

I don't have any answers; haven't heard many proposed; but we intend
(as best we can) to enjoy our reasonably good health and spend our retirement in the (now anachronistic) manner of my parents.

And try not to feel too guilty.

No guilt at all for me. I paid my dues. I retired at 55 because I planned for it. Went without (i.e. drove the same vehicle for 24 years) to put my kids through school and then pulled the plug. Like you, less than 200K but more than enough in retirement income to live comfortably.

I've spent lots of time in Italy BTW. A couple of tourist vacations but also months of working with a couple of Italian companies. Lived in Napoli and Bologna for short periods. I envy your NE Kingdom retreat. We are more oriented toward the lake for our escapes. We have friends that graciously allow us the use the use of their summer place on lake Champlain.

 

[MSGRET]

MSGRET: According to my diminishing math skills, and insufficient data, suggest you stick with the slots for now on balance.

I've actually won more from playing Pai Gow than from the slots. You also have actual people at the tables and only noise from the machines.

 

[winlots]

I've actually won more from playing Pai Gow than from the slots. You also have actual people at the tables and only noise from the machines.

Go for it! Best of luck.

 

[Steelerone]

We have a number of Jersey Mike's here in Tucson. They do a nice Cheese Steak (no cheese on it for me) and before she was medically told "no cold cuts" my wife liked their Italian sub. My sister-in-law outside Austin has been enjoying them, as well, as it is one of the few restaurants near where she has moved.

Good Cheese Steaks (bread, bagels, pizza, etc.) are tough out of the NYC / Philly area where we lived for so long. There is a fellow from Philly who opened a couple stores called Hogie House (his sign-maker misspelled it and he went with it) in Tucson that some locals like (never been) - and the 2 stand-alone that we tried, while both good (one had a hot loin of pork!!! sub) actually were not as good as Jersey Mike's, either. Just wish Jersey Mike's did fries. I prefer fries to chips with a sub. Oh, well.

KnightBridge, sorry you can't have cheese on yours, double sorrry about the wife and "no cold cuts". Why don't they ever say "No humas " or "No Brussel Sprouts." Yep, a good, hand cut, home made french fry is one of the great additions to any meal. One of the reasons we love the Outback is the french fries with cheese and bacon. My blood vessels start to cringe when we talk about going there.

 

[Steelerone]

I've actually won more from playing Pai Gow than from the slots. You also have actual people at the tables and only noise from the machines.

Agree with you. One of the reasons I enjoy playing in the Poker Room is because you don't play against the house, against each other. Slots are for people who don't know how to do math.

 

[MSGRET]

Agree with you. One of the reasons I enjoy playing in the Poker Room is because you don't play against the house, against each other. Slots are for people who don't know how to do math.

Pai Gow is just you against the dealer. Right now only three players can play with the other three seats empty. I play two hands so I like it that the table is restricted to only three. I'm such a selfish person aren't I

 

[triaddukefan]

Hey ladies and gentlemen, today was a great day of discovery. A friend told us about a sub place that opened in Bristol, Ct. called Jersey Mike's. Went there for lunch and got the Jersey Mike's Philly Cheese steak. One of the best I have ever tasted. Isn't it great when you try something new and can't wait to go back. My only mistake was getting the Regular. Darn. They had the Giant. Just another reason to know God loves us.

Jersey Mike's opened its first place here roughly 20 years ago... I've been a huge fan since. You need to sign up for the reward's program/card. Every regular sub=6 points... each giant =12 points. you get to 72 points.. and you get a free regular sub... 144= free giant. Ive tried just about every sub there is... my least favorite is the turkey... all the others are winners. My favorite is the Roast Beef... the chicken salad is incredible as well. I haven't had a Philly cheese steak from there in years... but the next time I go.. probably this weekend... I'll get one.

If you can eat a Giant Sub at one sitting...then you are a better mammal than I. In my younger days.. I would get the Giant and down it with no regrets. Now that I'm pushing 50 .... gimme a regular.. and I'm beyond satisfied.. almost stuffed. One more thing.. if you sign up for the rewards card... you get a free regular sub on your birthday.

 

[Steelerone]

Jersey Mike's opened its first place here roughly 20 years ago... I've been a huge fan since. You need to sign up for the reward's program/card. Every regular sub=6 points... each giant =12 points. you get to 72 points.. and you get a free regular sub... 144= free giant. Ive tried just about every sub there is... my least favorite is the turkey... all the others are winners. My favorite is the Roast Beef... the chicken salad is incredible as well. I haven't had a Philly cheese steak from there in years... but the next time I go.. probably this weekend... I'll get one.

If you can eat a Giant Sub at one sitting...then you are a better mammal than I. In my younger days.. I would get the Giant and down it with no regrets. Now that I'm pushing 50 .... gimme a regular.. and I'm beyond satisfied.. almost stuffed. One more thing.. if you sign up for the rewards card... you get a free regular sub on your birthday.

Triad, I know that it's going to be a difficult task but, God willing (and the creek don't go dry) I'm going to get the Giant Philly the next time I go in. And thank you for the info on the reward's program. I'll join the next time in.

 

[KnightBridgeAZ]

Triad, I know that it's going to be a difficult task but, God willing (and the creek don't go dry) I'm going to get the Giant Philly the next time I go in. And thank you for the info on the reward's program. I'll join the next time in.

Yep, reward program is great.

If I had to quibble regarding the subs - my favorite cold sub is "custom" - ham, roast beef and turkey - and no cheese (btw, just to be clear, I don't like cheese on sandwiches, I do eat cheese) and virtually impossible to get made right. I stopped trying when the wife stopped the cold subs. A real sub shop in NJ, OTH, would have no problem with it.

And thanks Steel fro the remarks about the wife, she misses the cold cut subs terribly, even though they were always a rare treat. It is the immunosuppresion due to her transplant - lots of nasty germs possible in cold cuts. Thankfully, she can eat ham which we get at Honey Baked, although we generally heat it to be doubly safe.

 

[BlueandOG]

I am a superintendent of schools - this summer has not be optimal.

 

[msf22b]

Slots are for people who don't know how to do math.

My wife and I are penny-ante slot players...We look for cheap slots (harder and harder to find) that make a lot of noise and do funny/interesting things.
When we lose 10 bucks, we quit. If we're winning, perhaps stop and hold and wait for another day...We partake on cruise ships and casinos...like to stay at cheap (but classy) casinos when we're traveling.

Clearly not serious gamblers, but slots have their place.
Not very good at math.

 

[Txhoopsalot]

I am a superintendent of schools - this summer has not be optimal.

Two teachers in the family. Both have some students without regular internet access. In addition, some students already had jobs and then added care of siblings during the spring and summer. Far cry for some of these students than my nephew’s family in Connecticut who had help at home over the summer while both parents worked from home, and can consider options such as learning pods.