Miami, or pretty much any other program for that matter, is more than justified in "lecturing" you. You don't get the moral high ground after this, not ever. Not after what has gone on at Penn State. If it makes you feel better to believe otherwise than so be it, but what you really should do is just shut up and take your medicine while trying to figure out how this was allowed to happen.
Miami, a school that has cheated to gain an advantage on the field time after time after time, can't lecture anyone. You guys don't even have a football program or any wins for that matter. All your victories are based on payoffs and phony "student athletes" on the field.
Penn State, on the other hand, while maintaining a decent semblance of what it means to compete and be a real student, one of the few programs with no NCAA probations, and ironically won the top award for academics this year, allowed a monster to use its facilities and didn't properly report him.
Those are the differences here. PSU up bigtime, unforgiveably, on a big issue OUTSIDE the football program. Miami, on the other hand, deliberately cheats year after year. You might as well not even have a football program. What's the point of you having one?
Penn State, on the other hand, can clean house, fire everyone, and guess what? PSU can say, "Let's get back to doing things the way we always did when it comes to making athletes go to class, not paying athletes, not cheating. Miami can't say, "Let's go back to doing it the Miami way."