Your points are well made. Permit some reinforcement. The scavenger hunts, scrumptious team meals and sightseeing trips are fun and surely help the players bond.
Geno's rules, usually enforced by CD, have the effect of discouraging individuality and stimulating "team." Some recruits are turned off by one or more restriction. It's a long list with zero tolerance for idiosyncrasies:
No names on uniforms;
No visible tattoos;
No knee socks or t-shirts with the uniform;
No earphones in public;
No colored nail polish;
No social media during the season;
No hassling refs or taunting opponents;
No dissing anybody when interviewed;
Always (practice, warmups and games) wear prescribed uniform;
At all times represent family and UConn basketball properly; and,
Adhere to any rule not on this list if expressed by Geno. Chris, Shea, or Melisa.
Final rule: You wanna play? Do what Geno says.
Or else.