Cant deal with the whole thread, but this might interest some of you. I was a student member of the university social policy committee in 1967. It was our committee, composed of students, administrators and faculty that took the first modernizing steps on campus social restrictions So you guys can thank me for some of your on campus fun.
I lived in the Towers all 4 years, they were brand new and off campus living was not a big thing. Mansfield was a dry town. Zero bars. Students went to Willi to drink and every year there students killed in drunk driving accident. Ted’s and other places in Storrs were strictly burger and such joints. The land at the Towers where the student center is now was a big vacant piece where we played softball and football and drove golf balls into the cemetery.
Females had curfews. With permission the women could be a half hour late twice a semester during the week and an hour on Friday and Sat. The Towers was the original mixed gender complex meaning there were a few dorms of women in the complex, no such thing as mixed gender dorms. While I was there, some of the West Campus dorms which were all female swapped with a few Towers dorms so there was more mixing of genders by dorm complexes. McMahon was one tower of men and one of women. You could get expelled for going up to a room of the opposite gender. Women were really treated like babies. All dorms had house mothers. There were a few RAs , but mostly not in the smaller dorms like the Towers. The men’s dorms in the Towers were kinda like fraternities without pledging or blackballing, known as social dorms and had live band parties a few Sat nights a month. Liquor flowed, the house mothers looked the other way, there were always rumors that State Police would raid the liquor parties, but to my knowledge none ever did
Our committee started making changes, but too late for me because I was a senior. Curfew rules for women were relaxed and men and women were allowed to visit opposite gender rooms during certain hours. We followed the rule most colleges were using then called the “matchbook rule” ( lots of cigarette smokers not much drug use). Which meant if a visitor of the opposite sex was in your room, the door had to be kept open at least the width of a matchbook so people could look inside. Baby steps, but it started the ball rolling. It took a few more years for Mansfield to relax the ban on bars and package stores, so places like Ted’s changed and nowadays barely resemble what they were in the 60s.