RadyLady
The Glass is Half Full
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Thank you RadyLady....based on your response it appears there is a reasonable gap between provocative/controversial comments and trolldom
As always, a human element is involved in determining one or the other. Some see some things as provoking and controversial, others dismiss it as nothing, and not everyone will agree.
The long time posters on this board are a great bunch. I remember my first couple of posts on the board - I was nervous of course, because between them all was an obvious camaraderie, a great deal of basketball knowledge, and unbridled passion for the UConn women's basketball program. I admit was scared at first I would make a mistake, be made fun of, and so on, but you know what? I really wanted to be a part of this board and learn from these folks, so I posted and waited and I was fine. I didn't post anything too pushy or controversial, I let them get to know me, and now for the most part I am one of the gang.
So if you are new and anxious about posting, I say get over it, think about what you are going to say before you say it and then go about it. And be patient.
There are different personalities on the board, and you have to realize that this is an internet board, so sometimes it is difficult to determine the intent of the poster, but that is something that can be realized over time once you get used to posting styles. The anonymity of the internet sometimes releases unusual qualities in people that they would not normally display in daily conversation with other adults. We see that all the time on social media sites and of course, on fan forums such as this one.
Also you have to realized that everyone has their opinion, and no one likes to be told that they are wrong. So you have to learn to walk away. Just as I said, I was new once, and here I am.
Good luck, and welcome to the Boneyard.