If you are really looking for a SUV, neither. If you are looking for a crossover family vehicle that has AWD, either. I'm partial to Hondas, having owned a few and never being disappointed.
You might also check out the new Ford Explorer, 2011 or later, and see how that suits you. Very nice upgrade in the design imo. I haven't owned an American automobile since college, and have owned several Japanese and German cars since, but I am looking at the new Explorer for my next vehicle. And as corny as it sounds, the fact that it is American is a factor. Not the only factor, but by my observation the quality is there and I am once again willing to give it a try.