Well to begin I've gone thru the process 6 times, 2 sons and four young men tht I've mentored thru life, 3 were recruited by top 30 coaches or asst coaches , I couldn't list all the reasons tht come in to play whn a teen is trying to make a big decision, some long for the bright lights and sounds of the big cities, some want the sound of crickets and farm animals. But I agree, we can go on and on abt this and end up at the same place we are now,, so we'll call it draw and live to debate another day.