To continue my point (wanted to break this up into 2 separate entries), let's say you're a 16 year old cello prodigy. Sure you can go to Harvard (fabulous school, excellent private lessons) or Columbia (ever so slightly less fabulous school, but even better private lessons). OR, you can go to a conservatory like Julliard in NY or Curtis in Philly (generally considered the top 2). But if you go to a conservatory, you won't get the all-around liberal arts education of Harvard or Columbia, etc. What do you do? Most folks go to the conservatory, because they're not interested in the best education, but rather the best musical training because they want to be musicians. (I picked the cello intentionally, for the obvious exception to the rule, but he is the Tiger Wood of cellists and was already gaining world fame at 8.)
Or put another way, my wife had a serious (a bit worrying, actually
) crush on Roger Federer. What pretty much cured her was during an interview someone mentioned Sigmund Freud and Federer's response was: "who is this Freud fellow?" When your whole life is tennis, you don't need to have that education. No one, except fortunately my wife, seems to care about his obvious lack of education.
If you're an elite athlete whose future prospects may well be associated with that sport, and you don't go to the very best place to pursue that sport, well, I don't think you're doing the best for yourself. Which is why Molly Bent, who will not get massive playing time at UConn and could have gone to and starred at (rumor has it) Princeton or Brown, made at the very least a defensible choice.