Posts saying why bother he's never gonna play aren't exactly welcoming.
There's a time and a place for most things. Anything negative even before he gets here is gratuitous.
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Man: “Hey, how’s the cat doing?”
Brother: “The cat’s dead.”
Man: “What?! You can’t just blurt it out like that! You should break bad news gently. For example, first say, ‘The cat’s on the roof and we can’t get her down.’ Then the next day say, ‘She fell off and isn’t doing well.’ Then finally you say, ‘I’m sorry, the cat passed away.’ That way I’m prepared!”
The brother says he understands.
A week later the man calls back.
Man: “So… how’s Mom?”
Brother: “Well… Mom’s on the roof, and we can’t get her down.”
Until the season starts, let's all assume the cat's on the roof.