Can we all agree that civility and honesty makes us better as people. When someone tells me something I take their word for it until there comes a point when I realize that I cannot. This is called trust. And if they make a promise or give their word and approach me at a later time with a truthful reason as to why they cannot keep their promise I do not automatically lose my trust in that person because we have all been involved in situations where some events evolve and we have to take a different direction than we originally wanted to.