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I did not mean to hijack your thread and I didn't "continue to insist" anything. I only posted once and I was referring to a quote from the article: "Pondexter was next to Ajavon and looked at Auriemma. He allegedly said something to her, referring to the score."
I do not know what he said, but he should not have said anything to any of our players while they were on the floor. As Cappie never had any history of acting the way she did that day with Geno, I can only surmise that whatever he said to her really upset her and I doubt that a pleasant comment about the score would cause her to react the way she did.
I have a lot of respect for Geno as a coach as I do for CVS. I don't have a problem with any of your fans not liking Vivian, or Cappie and I wasn't attacking anyone, just stating that none of the parties involved in the incident were blameless. One can say very vile things to people that are not racist (I'm not saying that what Geno said was vile as I don't know what he said).Vivian apparently thought it was vile based on what she was told at the time. I don't believe she is a liar, a whiner sometimes, on the defensive sometimes, but I don't think she is dishonest.
Well, you've succeeded in riling me up all over again. So I offer a sword and an olive branch.
The Sword
Your first paragraph assumes it must've been Geno's fault that Cappie did what she did, because she hadn't done it before. Your second paragraph assumes CVS must've believed what she said was true, just because.
Both of these assumptions are based on little or nothing beyond giving Rutgers people the benefit of the doubt. OK, that's your position. IMO, it's weak.
As far as the known facts are concerned, it was an all-around bad show by CVS and a couple of Rutgers players.
At the time of the Cappiegate game, Rutgers had been through a string of incidents involving player behavior that brought bad publicity to the program. When Cappie acted badly on national television, the RU public relations woman and AD Mulcahy urged CVS to "get out front" of the story in the post-game presser to avoid another.
So she did, with wildly exaggerated rhetoric and innuendo about something Geno had supposedly said to Cappie. (Inflammatory as the quotes above were, I also recall an accusation that Geno had said "something no human being should say to another.")
Geno's response: "Vivian has no idea what was said. None."
Yet she went so far as to demand an NCAA investigation of her baseless accusations. That investigation took place and concluded Geno had said or done nothing improper. CVS basically responded "OK I can accept that."
Oh, good of you coach. How about your own irresponsible behavior and words?
That the episode rankles many UConn fans to this day is in part explained by CVS never publicly resolving it, after her very public accusation. Geno/Cappy were fine about it within days; Geno/CVS OK not that long afterward.
And RU did make a public apology. It just didn't come from the star of stage and screen who for self-interested reasons blew a mistake by her player up into an earthshaking big deal by casting aspersions on another coach.
The apology came from the Rutgers AD, Mulcahy, the following season before the UConn/RU game in Connecticut (where, I think, RU and possibly both schools feared the consequences of fan anger).
The above is just Cappiegate. According to first hand accounts, the Ajavon to Ann Strother smack talk was, as accurately characterized by others in this thread, about as despicable as it gets.
So here you are, on the UConn board, pushing a false equivalency -- the idea that this disgraceful low point in a long series was, at least in part, Geno's fault, just because the RU players must've sincerely believed their misconceptions, just because they are who they (in your view) are.
OK.
The Olive Branch
RU fans currently posting on this board are among my favorite visitors. KnightBridge I view as almost a friend though we've never met and have only conversed by PM. Coler, Newark, bbsamjj and you have done nothing but contribute positively to this board.
Am also a bit wistful about the fact that RU72 was once a frequent Boneyard poster, and his insights much respected. We encountered Richard frequently at events, and considered him almost as much a UConn fan as an RU fan.
Well, almost. His BY posting ended the night Cappiegate hit the board and he tried to slug it out with the fans here. He never returned after that.
Looking back on this thread, I don't think anyone intended to hijack it and send it in the direction of the poisonous Cappiegate game from nine years ago. I think Coler kind of forgot where he was (not a bad thing generally) in asking a UConn fan to "get out of here with that CVS hate."
Then somebody had to explain that hate, and off we go. I agree with Cat that it was bad but it was a long time ago, such that a lot of people have moved on.
I also, as these remarks reflect, think CVS - averse posters like Rocky and Ell have very good reasons for their view of the incident, and it's not for me to say they should move on if they don't feel that way. Emotionally, I side with them when that game gets dragged to my attention.
I should be more mature, less vindictive, have a better sense of perspective. I know. I'm not helping the situation, I know. But my efforts to have a perfect demeanor, in this and in life, have fallen slightly short.
Let's be friends, RU fans. I like you even if you strive to defend the indefensible.
Oops. Now where did I put that olive branch?