Thank you, sort of. As with most of my posts that can be read as take downs, I'm much more interested in taking down the overreaching and self-certainty.
It has been suggested, by analogy, that a benefit of meditation practice is to still the overactive, perpetually reactive, or prone-to-be-distracted mind. Some describe it as skin to turning off the burner beneath a bubbling boiling pot of water, so that when the water stills, it is readily apparent that a pearl sits in a pot of still water. Upon further consideration, it can be accepted that the pearl was there all along.
There are many sources that recommend the power of forgiveness. But the majority of mature considerations of the subject note that forgiveness shares a quality with grief in not necessarily obeying a fixed or forced time schedule.
While your "strong suspicion" might well move over time in the direction you suggest, and it might generate reflections such as you imagine down the road, impatience and bullying aren't likely to accelerate the pace, or do so with the desired effect of greater harmony. The insufficiencies of such a process continue to be on display here.