It seems to me that KO has chosen to take a more calculated approach to when and whom he shows that fire.
Young team with different personalities needs selective coaxing. Constant screaming, screaming at people with fragile egos or mistimed screaming will cause people to tune out, crawl into a shell or minimize impact.
Best thing about KO is he's not afraid to reevaluate his approach. He doesn't quickly abandon things but he doesn't hang on to things forever. Some one wrote in this forum that KO made a decision about 6 or 7 games ago to change how they approach the players.
A lot of dudes could have his resume of getting tutelage from some of the best coaches in the game and still come out none the wiser. Not KO imo. He evaluates what they do, and implements what he thinks is beneficial. And I think he really understands people. That's a terrific combo which is why I had ten toes in even before he was selected, kept them in when he was selected, had them in during this entire season and will have them in as long as he coaches UConn.