So everyone who does 4 years under Jim Calhoun should have stellar personal lives and not up? I think we all agree he blew it and is responsible, but his native intelligence, upbringing, parenting etc, these are things that 4 years with Calhoun might not be able to correct. We have numerous players under Coach Calhoun's influence where life does not quite turn out perfect, and I'm not blaming coach.
In the extreme cases, I'd agree. I think it would always have been tough for a guy like Nate Miles. Or someone who was serially abused as a child.
But for the average guy from lesser circumstances? Absolutely. People aren't static. We are all capable of growth, regardless of our pasts. There's been far too many guys who've come from crap, made mistakes, and pulled themselves together to be successful or, at the minimum, law abiding citizens.
It comes down to your choices. The choices you make determine your directions. There's a measure of personal responsibility that kicks in as you age and mature.
Guys can mess up in the future, sure. But if they learn from it, atone, and grow, then they are good by me and good by society. Tate continues to screw people and lie, refuses to apologize, passes the blame, and refuses to take responsibility for his actions.