It absolutely is a very disappointing loss, but the score is what counts, and all that talent on paper was not ready to hold onto that lead against that team in those last few minutes. I still maintain that (unless you are Taurasi or Maya of someone like that) you cannot turn intensity on like water from a faucet. You also cannot command it that way in others, even if you are Geno Auriemma.
If you have it in you at all (and some kids don't), it's a learned behavior, and you get better at it if you have to use it more often. This, IMHO, is the real and insidious reason why being in the AAC is a problem.
Absent UConn, the AAC is a pretty balanced league in which many teams are competitive with one another. UConn throws the whole thing off because 3/4ths of the time, if not more, UConn can coast to victory. Now back before recruiting got tougher, UConn blew everyone out, or almost everyone. Still, even though the AAC is better than it used to be (and the South Florida team that should have been would have given UConn a real game this year) it is not the proving ground that an NCAA Final Four team needs.
It is not a coincidence that when UConn joined the AAC, it stopped participating in joke tournaments -- Remember "competing" against Fairleigh-what-the-hell?-Dickinson at in December at the Civic Center? Geno recognized he needed to test has players as often as he could. So UConn has this great OOC schedule and hopefully will continue to do so. But, IMHO, it's not enough, either to keep the recruits coming in enough numbers to automatically remain at the top or to prepare most of UConn's players for the rigors of competition against the Notre Dames and Baylors of the world.
This is not doom and gloom, folks. It is the New World Order. UConn had a great year -- better that some expected. Given the talent we know will be there, next year will be a real challenge. I have a lot of confidence that Geno & Company will adapt, but there may be just so much they can do.