I feel the same way. I think the problem is that every game feels like an existential crisis for us. This is primarily due to the fact that we are being kept out of a club for very little reason, and we've adopted the belief that if we just "win 1 more game, we're in".
The truth is that we could have gone 12-0 this season and STILL not be invited to a P4 conference. And teams like Northwestern can stink to high heaven and still collect 40 million more than us.
This is essentially why we go bonkers after every win and pull ourselves off of the bridge every time we lose...