Again, the only flagship state school in the continental US that doesn't have football at all is Vermont. The ones that play FCS in the area are UNH, URI and Delaware (or perhaps add Albany and Stony Brook) while there are also the Big Sky area ones (Idaho, Montana, North Dakota, South Dakota). These become our colleagues as soon as we quit.
We may think that the NBE is an attractive landing spot if we abandon football, but they'd have to take us (and there's absolutely no reason for them to consider it), and we'd be a total outsider as a state school in a league of small, private, urban Catholic schools.
Either we stick this out as long as we can and try to get better and earn a seat at the big table, or we cut our losses and accept that our future is heading on a path back to the Yankee Conference from whence we came.