McKenzie Calvert committed to Baylor as an 8th grader; I believe both UConn and Tenneesee have received verbal commitments from very young recruits, as well, although maybe not that young. Interview/article on Collier:
http://www.kvue.com/sports/228263301.html
As for Karen Aston, her head coaching experience was limited to a couple of years at UNC-Charlotte (one NCAA appearance, I believe) and North Texas (losing season). So, her resume isn't very accomplished. But, she got the job based on having been a former assistant coach at Texas under Jody Conradt. She's obviously a great recruiter, but the jury is still out on her actual coaching abilities.
Texas has separate men's and women's athletic departments and directors. A female AD, Chris Plonsky, is in charge of the women's athletics. She has yet to hire a single male head coach to lead any of the programs under her watch (tennis, swimming (twice) , soccer, basketball (twice), golf); none have come close to winning a national championship. The volleyball program is led by a male head coach who won the national title last year, and has been to the Final Four four out of the last 5 years); some debate who actually hired him as he was hired during the transition when Jody Conradt was giving up the AD spot, and Plonsky was taking the reins.
So, some Texas fans are upset with Plonsky for her hiring practices, and some are upset with Aston based on her qualifications. To say Aston's personal life upsets Texas fans isn't a fair assessment, IMO.