UcMiami
How it is
- Joined
- Aug 26, 2011
- Messages
- 14,197
- Reaction Score
- 47,326
Really good point.This is hyperbole. All you can state confidently is that it's highly unlikely to be...
I have had significant interaction with a 10-year old boy(!) who is confident, considerate, perceptive, social, self-aware, and thoughtful. Is fun to be around. Knows what he wants to do when he gets out on his own (he's already mostly "grown up") and has started a planned campaign to prepare himself for it.
Everybody's chemistry matures at different rates. Obviously he's 4 or 5 standard deviations out, but if he can be such a person at that age, I'd say the odds a woman could be such a person when two years older are more than somewhat higher.
I have travelled fairly extensively outside the US and there is a noticeable difference in the way children are raised in the US and foreign parts - what follows is a generalization and there are obviously lots of exceptions to the rule in the US, but ...
Generally other cultures socialize much more across generations - it is not unusual to be at gatherings that include age ranges from 10 through 85 and those gatherings do not break apart into age groups but remain homogenous. There is not a kids table or a kids room and children are expected to interact intelligently with adults and because of the expectation (and the habit) they do. And it is not just private settings but carries over to lots of public settings as well. And you also see more children at adult events - classical concerts, serious plays, museums.
I suspect your 10 year old has grown up in an environment where he has both been listened to and solicited by adults for his opinion frequently. He does not have the experience of an older person to bring to his opinions, but he has learned to think for himself because he has been asked to. And I suspect his family has exposed him to a broader range of experience than what generally is considered children's fare.