Right...so when you give your "word" to someone...it's conditional? I suppose that's the world we live in today....more and more people doing it and thinking it's fine. Which in the end means...a promise doesn't mean anything. Michigan? A week ago that didn't so much either!Dude, it's Michigan.

Then they should just rename it. Why put on a charade? I suppose it could then cut both ways too. If a school finds a better prospect, then they could drop one of the current ones if they wanted to...it would be understood by all.Former HCRE stated to me that verbal commits are leaning towards the school and nothing is set into stone until the first Wednesday in Feb.
I don't understand how people are upset. Nothing in recruiting means anything until the NLI is received. For those of you who don't follow CFB recruiting as a whole (outside of UCONN), you'd be shocked at how many flipped commits there are.
Absolutely! As I understand it, the kid who had committed to Buffalo, committed to HC Quinn. He was then fired. At that point, the kid should have every opportunity to consider his options. In this case, there was no change with our HC. I consider the two situations to be totally different!
Verbal commitment means absolutely nothing in recruiting.
Sure, the vast majority end up coming because of the same reasons they verbaled in the first place, but until the LOI is signed it doesn't mean a thing.
I don't see it as some kind of big issue that's an indicator of the decline in society (if that's what you were getting at). On the job market (depending on the sector) it's really not uncommon to accept an offer and then drop it if a better one comes along. In some industries people will even change jobs a few weeks after the start date if they feel it's not a good fit for them. Yeah, it's good to teach young people that word is bond, etc. etc. but to say a verbal commitment rises to that ideal is a bit of an overstatement IMHO.btw, my point has absolutely nothing to do with whether UCONN lost out on a good football player. It's a much bigger issue than that.
@uconndogs You're reading too much into the semantics of "verbal commitment".
Think of it as "unofficial pending intent".
I don't think staying true to your word and eventually committing to an early non binding decision have anything to do with one another.
We're talking about a young man making the most important decision of his life and he gets a better opportunity - you're saying his unofficial word should hold greater significance?
As I stated, it all depends on the understanding between the two parties (the potential recruit and the coach). If that handshake is "I'm committed to you" and "I'm holding a spot for you based on that commitment" with both parties saying it's a done deal, then I think taking another offer or pulling the schollie are using semantics.
Yeah, it's good to teach young people that word is bond, etc. etc. but to say a verbal commitment rises to that ideal is a bit of an overstatement IMHO.
I think you have to look at recruiting (and job offers for that matter) in a vacuum.
In 5-10 years is this young man better served by keeping a verbal commitment with a football coach who BTW could leave at the drop of a hat or going to a place where he feels he can best succeed?
Same with a job offer - if something comes along with more money opportunity you have to take it for yourself or your family.
To me, my word is saying I'll be there for a friend or family member and following through whatever that may mean.
An organization/corporation gets my loyalty and word to the extent that I'll work hard when employed there - and nothing more than that.
I agree it is nonsense, but compare the number of posts on Ulizio versus the Diamond Stone thread on the MBB board... now that's a nonsense thread!You guys that follow this nonsense crack me up. Haven't the actual games been hard enough to stomach without getting all wrapped up in this nonsense? People following kids on twitter and the like. Just strikes me as a big waste of time. Start paying attention when they actually sign and take the field.
And here you are following the nonsense...........Just say'nYou guys that follow this nonsense crack me up. Haven't the actual games been hard enough to stomach without getting all wrapped up in this nonsense? People following kids on twitter and the like. Just strikes me as a big waste of time. Start paying attention when they actually sign and take the field.

As I stated, it all depends on the understanding between the two parties (the potential recruit and the coach). If that handshake is "I'm committed to you" and "I'm holding a spot for you based on that commitment" with both parties saying it's a done deal, then I think taking another offer or pulling the schollie are using semantics.