I agree. College rivalries are built by college student who have friends from high school who went to the ‘other’ school and then playing that school one or two times a year. These regional rivalries are the heat of college sports from the DI level all the way down to DIII (think Union v. RPI, Williams v. Amherst, Bowdoin v. Colby v. Bates, etc.). Students and colleges want to win these games and will invest to win these games. That investment makes the both schools better in the end. That is the potential that BC is missing out by avoiding a rivalry with UConn. While not at the same level, we don’t see Auburn and Alabama trying to backstab the other into oblivion. They much rather punch each other in the face on national TV in front of 85,000 to 100,000 very passionate fans.
A school can really only build strong ‘national’ rivalries if the school is consistently, over a significant period of time a playoff/championship contender. Good examples are ND and Miami in football in the 90’s, UConn and Tennessee in women’s hoops in the 90’s, etc. For a ‘normal’ program, like UConn and BC in football most of the time, our fans wants to see UConn and BC plan and win, not play Wake Forest (ACC) or a Memphis (AAC).
If UConn somehow ends up in the B1G instead of the ACC, I would love to see a football rivalry develop and solidify between UConn and Rutgers. Play it in Piscataway or E Hartford or in Yankee Stadium and call it the Big Apple Bowl (I’ll bring the hard cider). My concern there though is that Rutgers appears to want Penn State as its chief rivalry, even if Penn State does not feel the same.