It's like freshmen, sportsmanship, manhole covers, etc. The English language just can't always be gender neutral.
I have to love a poster named Kibitzer giving me a serious answer. Of course you would have to realize that I was embellishing a tongue in cheek post made by BroadwayVa and if you didn't see that connection the humor could be lost.
Nonetheless, I have to love the situation where Doris is announcing and says Moriah lost her man. Oops bad example. More likely where she said Saniya lost her man. Could easily say lost her women. It would sound odd at first, but not after continuous usage. No different than the change in our perception of clothing. As an example we no longer say the man wears the pants in the family. That was oh so fifties. Now its becoming acceptable to say the man wears the dress in the family.
I guess our culture is becoming gender transitioned and language is like Saniya, a step behind the cultural change.