You people are insane if you think Storrs can support a 40,000 person stadium. I grew up in Coventry and during basketball games, where at most, 9,000 people show up, both 195 and 44 are basically parking lots. There is no infrastructure for it. It's already terrible -- for basketball games.
You think Storrs could handle a crowd 4x times that size? There's just no way.
Plus, if you think attendance in East Hartford is bad, try moving the stadium into the northeast corner of the state. Whatever you gain in students you're going to lose in people who live in places like Waterbury and New Haven, etc.
It's a nice dream, but it's just so wildly impractical that it's just that -- a dream.