What's the productive purpose of our/your schadenfreude?
I'm was 'rooting' for it and hoping that BC would go 0-fer in BBall (and football), but now that they have I'm not happy that the kids that played there are miserable. The BC admins behaved poorly, put their school/teams in a bad position and now are facing the consequences and deservedly so. It is no coincidence that their hockey teams that are in normal northeastern leagues are both doing well. Anyway I don't think anyone who plays there is in any way complicit in the conference alignment hypocrisy & betrayal that happened 13 freekin' years ago when some of these players were 5 years old.
And my rooting for BC to fail has nothing to do with BC failing or not, so I think its human to think the following: "Hmm, rooting against BC may or may not have an extremely minor effect on my life and may or may not help UConn get into a better conference someday, but in the meanwhile someone's real every day life is definitely negatively impacted by that $hitshow. I feel bad for those people."
Also BTW having empathy or writing about it on a message board isn't likely to impact conference realignment.