I get it: you don't want to play in the new neighborhood. You think we deserve to be in the House of Lords NOT the House of Commons.
Unlike British Parliament, the House of Commons (Aresco league, CUSA, MWC) is not where the power is. We have to face up to this reality. The power is in the Big Ten, ACC, Pac12, Big12. Perhaps one of those leagues will get blown apart, perhaps not. But the fundamental disagreement seems to be that despite your UConn degree, you think UConn either does not belong, or should refuse to participate with the nobility of college sports. If the criteria is football only, or if it's based on 1920-1980 you'd have a point. My criteria is institution-wide, with an eye on the future. I see the new league as limiting UConn's future. The future of the Aresco league is not blueblood, it is not the House of Lords. It is supposed to be a challenger league, perhaps it will match the 1990-2010 era where "new brands" in football from Miami, VTech, Louisville, Cincy got traction. But that's far from certain, and I think a neutral observer would say the odds of exceeding that era are quite remote. That's why everybody except you wants to get out of dodge the first invite we get. That's why we want UConn to position itself for the future, since #BegHarder wasn't enough.
Maybe your irritation is that most of the schools in the bigtime leagues don't deserve the nobility status. Vanderbilt, Northwestern, Washington State, etc. How will you take that away from them? I don't think you can - that perception comes from their fans and alumni, and is perpetuated by ESPN and the other networks who are selling them. It sounds like you think UConn aiming for the ACC/BigTen is akin to chimneysweep wanting to wash off the soot and abandon his commoner status. That instead, we should link arm in arm with the other commoners (Houston, UCF, SMU) and lead some kind of revolution to make the commoners and nobility equal.
News flash - that ship sailed when Utah got in the Pac 12, now Orrin Hatch can go back to worrying about taxes or trade policy instead of leading the revolution. Another news flash - we already abandoned our "commoner status" 20 years ago, we already outgrew the "challenger brand" phase (apart from football, perhaps). Challenger brands are worth a tenth of the big boys, at least according to the networks. We're not going back.