Absolute fabulous thread and wonderful stories all - each one I read tempted me to comment about connection - spent 6 years in Mobay, Jamaica, or friend who went to Grinnell and told me of its founder - the original recipient of Greeley's admonition to 'go west, young man, go west'. (Always thought it called into question the founders geography, stamina, or ambition that IA was as far west as he got!) But not enough space ... so, my story:
My parents moved to Storrs, CT in 1947 when my Dad got a job in the English Department, just in time for the first major expansion of the University due to the GI Bill. My first sister was born at Willimantic hospital that winter and two more followed, our family doctor (Dr. Gilman - office on Dog Lane) having predicted a boy each time. By the time I came around he gave up and predicted a girl giving him a 100% score on being wrong. We lived on campus initially in housing called 'Oil Can Row' (surplus quonset huts with oilcans on sawhorses at the back), moved to the Mansfield Apartments when they were built, and then my parents built a home on Separatist Rd (where they lived when I came along in 1955.) I went to elementary school in what is now the town hall, and HS at E.O.Smith in the late 60s early 70s. I spent a lot of time running around the campus, going to free concerts, sit-ins, and watching football from the hill where the parking garage now stands (used to be the apple orchards on that hill.) I remember running on the 'new, amazing' track when it was first installed in the field house never being conscious that that area in the middle was the basketball court. And I was first introduced to computers when my 8th grade math class finished our year's work in half a year and we all learned Fortran II programming language and got time on the Uconn computer - still have stacks of punch cards, for some of the programs I wrote. Went to college at Princeton, dropped out to pursue theater, went back to school first at the O'Neill Center in Waterford, CT and then to Connecticut College - after graduating spent a year as the assistant Technical Director at Conn College before heading to NYC to pursue my dream. I did technical theater work in NYC mostly off Broadway for six years - my biggest claim to fame - telling Sir Anthony Hopkins to get the hell out of the way as he was standing in a sight line I was checking from the house - honestly I didn't know who he was with his back turned. I ended up working a union job in the back of beyond Brooklyn (near Christ the King HS - who knew!) for the NBC scene shop - mostly building sets for SNL. A friend from Princeton had started a very small company and I helped him, invested a little money, and in 1986 went to work with him when he made me an offer I couldn't refuse. While the union money was good, we were so removed from the actual artistic side that it no longer felt like art, just construction.
The company had offices on 5th Ave and 14 St and we tabulated retailer newspaper advertising for manufacturers. As the company grew we moved out of the city to Amsterdam, NY where our landlord burned down the whole building complex in an insurance fraud (caught and jailed) and we ended up taking the insurance money and moving the back room operation to Montego Bay, Ja, where I lived for 6 years. I then moved back to Saratoga Springs, NY followed by 18 months in London working from home, Chicago, IL (Evanston and then downtown) when we merged with a competitor, and a very strange 6 months in Clarksville, TN transitioning another merged company. My dad died around the end of my time in JA, and I was helping my mother. That became more important as she reached her 90s and having shifted to part time I bought a small house in Miami and split time between there and Storrs, CT. My mom died at age 95 a few years ago and I now own the house in CT and am shifting more towards there than Miami. I hate NE in Jan - Mar, but love it the rest of the time and love the home I grew up in. I officially retired 18 months ago because I no longer needed the job to maintain health insurance - not to be political, but as a type II diabetic, the only way I could get insurance was by staying on a payroll - now, someone else is doing my job who actually needs the job, and I am no longer bound to a job I had wanted to leave for about 5 years.
On Basketball - loved the game as a kid and loved the Celtics, but only ever played intramurally and was never very good. Theater took up all my outside activity time so never pursued anything athletic in school except pick-up games. My dad started watching the women on CPTV and whenever I was home during the season we would watch together. He was so excited about the TASSK force and especially Sue Bird, but died the summer before their freshman year. I began really following them at that point and to this day, I think about him when I watch the games. Being an academic and a former 'miler' and relay member throughout his HS and college years he loved the women because they represented student athletes more than the big men's sports. Been reading and posting for quite a while on the boneyard - and the Uconn women are my sporting passion - I follow the Boston teams closely in the pros, but not with the same passion and part of that is due to the BY. Being able to join a community that is both passionate and respectful makes the experience of being a fan so much better. The other sports forums I visit occasionally to pick up news, but it is a hard slog to find an intelligent thread - they all descending into banality almost immediately.
Probably too much information and too long, but ... I loved the detail in earlier posts and the odd 'bells' rung by tidbits posted.
And a last one - my sisters are now spread out in Maui, Los Angeles, and Freedom, NH - we actually like each other a lot, but succeeded in living just about as far away from each other as possible and staying in the states - my niece is living in Tacoma, WA continuing the family tradition!
FYI - for some reason the word for drama on a stage gets change when posted into theater - haven't tried theatre - maybe that will work.