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OT: Props to the Vols—great story

Nice story...I just hope that the “portion” of the proceeds donated is substantial and not just something like $0.50 per shirt sold. Over 14K shirts preordered at $15/ea. Hope UT doesn’t use this as a convenient money grab too.
 
Um, it wasn't an assignment to make your own shirt. They had a "college colors" day at his elementary school where they were supposed to wear shirts from their favorite college. The kid said he was a UT fan but he didn't have a UT shirt, so the teacher told him he could make his own, which he did. He wore it proudly to school and some girls who didn't even participate in the event made fun of him and he took it hard, and he cried. Extreme bullying? No. Life lesson? Sure.

A teaching moment about putting in a better effort? Nope.

Good story? I think so.
There's a line where teasing becomes bullying and that line moves depending on the individual and subject matter. If this child was teased by the same child or children prior to this incident than by my measure this was bullying. If this was the first incident then I'd like to know how the kids reacted when they saw this kid crying? If they stopped than they are compassionate and failed to predict the sensitivity of the situation. If they continued I'd be concerned.

We are constantly debating the manner with which we should handle sensitivity. We can go to one extreme and refrain from saying anything for fear we can hurt someone's feelings. Or conversely be honest with our expression always and insist people be tough. I don't subscribe to either of those extremes.
 
It was a horrible shirt and kids are mean. I'm glad everything turned out positive for the boy. But man, that shirt was a brutal attempt.
 
Boneyard Grateful Dead fans will now refer to you as Tennessee Jib.
That's OK, I still root for football which isn't great but a religion down there and their basketball unless of course they were playing UCONN. when Tennessee loses at football their fans walk around in sackcloth and ashes, they are very very serious.
 
@jibsey I was just doing a play on the Grateful Dead song Tennessee Jed. I went to a Notre Dame/Tennessee game in South Bend when the Vols were very good and Charlie Weis' Irish were very bad. It was a sea of Orange and it took me months to get Rocky Top out of my head. Vols fans will sing that song continuously.
 
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PS: When it aired tonight they added that profits from sales of the shirts are going to anti-bullying organizations.
A % of profits!

Loved the 8 yr old kid visiting his grandmother in SC that used the money he was saving for WDW to buy food for evacuees of Hurricane Dorian. WDW is providing him and his mother a WDW vacation.
 
I realize that kids are getting phones younger and younger, but I don't think fourth graders are on social media...yet.
You'd be surprised. I've been part of several parent/teacher/admin meetings relating to things kids said to each other over various social media platforms. I had a third grader who was talking about his youtube channel in class, for example. Later members of admin found out he was bad mouthing the school on his channel. Over the years (1 in 3rd grade, 1 in 4th grade, 4 in 5th grade, 2 in 6th, 2 in 7th, 2 in 8th) I have witnessed way too many issues that started online. Kids have come to me in tears showing me some of the stuff that has been sent to them over social media. Again, some of these instances were indeed as young as 3rd and 4th grade! Some of those messages are absolutely brutal. If I did not know any better, I'd peg them as messages between adults with some of the swears and insults used. In fact, so many 5th graders from my past classes had phones that after my first week with them I started collecting them at the start of the day and did not give them back until the end of the day because it prevented a lot of issues during school.
 
Um, it wasn't an assignment to make your own shirt. They had a "college colors" day at his elementary school where they were supposed to wear shirts from their favorite college. The kid said he was a UT fan but he didn't have a UT shirt, so the teacher told him he could make his own, which he did. He wore it proudly to school and some girls who didn't even participate in the event made fun of him and he took it hard, and he cried. Extreme bullying? No. Life lesson? Sure.

A teaching moment about putting in a better effort? Nope.

Good story? I think so.
And the resulting shirt has kind of a cool Derpy Dog vibe. I like it, well I would if it wasn't Tennessee.

 
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Tennessee gives scholarship to boy bullied for his homemade T-shirt and welcomes him to the Class of 2032.

Has he been on Ellen yet? I’m sure we’ll get a healthy dose of him at the ESPY’s.
 
Horatio, sounds like you’re about to add the shirt to your collection. Nice.
 

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