Wait, which planet did you say you were from where making a million bucks a year didn't change "dating" dynamics? Ive been to china on business several times, although only to urban centers, and yes the overall ratio is garbage, but that in no way matters for young successful americans. Women will throw themselves at you, literally, because as you mentioned, it pretty much sucks to be a chick there. Say what you will about the state of humanity, but you cant ignore the power of money in reality on this planet.