Kibitzer
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Hi Carnac. We're not talking about gender here, we're talking about singular vs plural. Person is singular, people is plural. He/she is singular and they is plural. You join plural with plural and singular with singular, hence person with his/her and people with they. And no, I'm not an English major fanatic. It's just the way it's supposed to be and many of us learned it from our (not college-educated) parents. But you're definitely not alone with failing to make this distinction. I wouldn't intrude on this discussion at all except that the Boneyard grammarian, Kibitzer, overlooked this fairly obvious misuse in his "like" and I'm enough of a smartass to call him on it.
Your points were so well made that I feel obliged to offer a late night smartass response. I'll focus on what Carnac was writing about -- this use of man for both exes. I think you covered the singular/plural issue quite well.
I am reliably informed that etymologists trace the word man back to the Sanskrit manus, which meant "human being" and was $exless. Along came English to differentiate between man and woman, linguistically.
There was little fuss for a few centuries about use of man to conveniently encompass both sexes. But in recent years (about past 50-60) there has been a powerful surge of demand that women no longer be called, well, men.
Compliance has been steady and painless. Chairmen became "the Chair" (but not the electrifying one); firemen became firefighters; mailmen became letter carriers; and so on.
As a practical matter, there are realistic limitations to this form of accommodation. Our Huskies still play man-to-man defense, we still have manhole covers, and Humankind will forgive the occasional use of man in the spirit of the Sanskrit manus.
Tomorrow is Sunday so I'll pray for "Peace on earth, good will to, um, everybody."
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