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Message: [QUOTE="Mr. French, post: 2059481, member: 2292"] That's heavy stuff man. I'm sure you've gotten plenty of good advice in here, and I've read a bunch so far and that's true. But as with all situations of death or difficulty generally, others' words will help but won't cure. I'll tell you, without too many details, that as a young man I've dealt with the loss of an unborn child ... Twice. Many people have dealt with it more. It's brutal, especially after the enormous excitement of the early pregnancy. What I'll say, for advice, is if your relationship is strong, keep it strong now. This is an important time, and for her, as bad as it feels for you, it's entirely different and incredibly difficult for the woman who is carrying and then losing her child. Be there in support and in every way possible, as hard as it may be sometimes. You two are the only two that feel EXACTLY how you feel, but others have experienced similar things. Be strong, and you'll be ok. Look at the silver linings that came from your previous difficulties, and remember that, as hard as it seems now. [/QUOTE]