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Message: [QUOTE="jrazz12, post: 2059117, member: 557"] A lot of good advice already in this thread. Just wanted to say thank you for sharing and hopefully that helps with the healing. I am the same way in that writing things out helps me to get my mind right and express things I normally couldn't. And honestly, it's so damn clichè but the everything happens for a reason mantra exists for a reason, as painful as some of the happenings are. I'm really sorry for you and the loss of a child in your circumstances. I can't even imagine putting myself in your shoes right now. The only thing I will say by way of advice is make sure you keep open and honest communication with the girlfriend about the whole thing. Hopefully it brings you both closer together in the long run and you can continue to build a life together. Stay strong for yourself, and your new family, and use whatever outlets you can to work through your feelings. We're here for you, Uconn fam forever [/QUOTE]