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Message: [QUOTE="Hoophound, post: 2058630, member: 271"] The saying, "everything happens for a reason" is truly profound. I am sure that you will find the reason if you are open to it. It sounds to me like you have someone to be a dad to right now, and probably some learning from it to do as well. However, I think it is important to ask, how do you feel about the new girlfriend and instant fatherhood? Are you in love with her or just happy to have someone? How do you feel about the ex? Do you still lover her and do you think retrospectively that she left you because you were inconsiderate or unavailable? I guess what I'm saying is, I hope you are really in love with the one you choose or for the good of all, don't choose one and keep looking. You don't owe the ex a second chance and you don't owe the gf the rest of your life because she miscarried. Choose happiness. [/QUOTE]