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Message: [QUOTE="FfldCntyFan, post: 2058412, member: 71"] Blue Blood, my condolences. About fourteen months before my son was born (he turned 21 five months ago) my then wife had a miscarriage about ten weeks into the pregnancy. That was one of the saddest events of my life and we grieved at a level beyond anything I could have imagined prior to that. As difficult as it may have been for me, it was infinitely worse for my wife for a number of reasons, not the least being that we had been married for roughly ten months when we found out she was pregnant and that pregnancy was something she wanted beyond anything from shortly before the wedding. As bad as the miscarriage itself was, adding insult to injury so to speak was the procedure (suction D & C) she had to endure the following morning. I feel for you man but as bad as it may be for you, what she is going through is worse. Be there for here. Be strong, caring, comforting, understanding and anything else you need to be for her. Life deals some devastating blows. What you have with her, that little girl, you parent's and true friends is what will get you through this. [/QUOTE]