Thanks again for the outpouring of advice and empathy. The Boneyard is a great place, full of friends, and it's a lot more than just a sports hangout.
Husky25, you're absolutely right, the problem still exists, what we've done is bought time and the use of our vehicle.
We've been working with Wallingford and Bristol to resolve this for the future, but it's terrible that the burden of proof is on you. Also, isn't there a statute of limitations on this kind of thing? Who keeps records for 12 years, or should be expected to?