Millwright's in Simsbury
L'Orcio in New Haven
Mikro in Hamden and Ideal Tavern in Southington are great craft beer bars serving top notch food.
Oyster Club in Mystic (not S&P, which sucks)
Penny Lane Pub in Saybrook
Mecha noodle bar in Norwalk, Fairfield or New Haven.
Roia in New Haven, particularly for their wine pairing dinners that hey put together with the Wine Thief.
David Burke in Foxwoods is far and away the best steakhouse in the state, but the state is lacking in that category.
For Upscale dining, either Union League or On20 or Cavey's.
We really want to try le Petit Cafe soon