LOL, well it looks like me and you have the BoneYard covered for witnessing losses in person to s. h. i. i. t teams. Being at the Seton Hall game is worse, not just for the aforementioned reasons in your post, but also because UConn had a 90%+ chance to win that game twice, once in regulation being up 7 with 36 seconds left and then in OT being up 5 with 25 seconds or whatever it was.
At least with me and the Colorado loss, I was able to stick around and watch the Memphis-Michigan State game and somewhat forget about the Colorado loss and I was able to enjoy the beautiful island of Maui and do all the fun activities there. But make no mistake, GIFs in my #259 post and ctbro 1999's #261 post encapsulate how I felt at the moment when UConn lost at Seton Hall and even now how I feel about that loss.