Neighbors was the Washington coach when she originally committed there, so he eventually did get her, it was just a very circuitous route.
Yes, but wasn't Neighbors already at Arkansas when she left Maryland? So even that option she punted on once. Point is, these players make decisions when they are still kids, and maybe as they get older, what they want changes. Short of some allegation of poor behavior from the coach, like this Detroit Mercy women's basketball's top 3 scorers enter transfer portal amid coach controversy, I don't think you can just blame the coach. Its a two way street, just like assistant and head coaches can leave for new jobs and no one bats an eye, players can do the same.