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For a few years now I've taken to taking it game by game and enjoying the development of individual players. With the Tennessee loss last season my season expectations whithered and were only partially restored by the SC butt whipping. Then our Huskies took the tourney like Sherman through Georgia and I just lived in the moment and loved it all.

Now this fall is different. It's like it use to be. We are expected to win. Not only that, but lots of talk about the Huskies going undefeated. So what's the problem? I find myself out of shape for an undefeated run or that shock that comes when somebody elses A+ game comes along.

Anybody have any advice to give on ditching fan worry and approaching the season with Christmas like anticipation?
 
Yes. Watch each game for what it is - one game. Watch the players and see what happens from game to game, remembering that the coaches are prepping them first for BE schedule, then BE tourney, then the NCAAs. Don't get caught up in too many highs/lows, etc. And oh yeah, enjoy the ride, no matter what.
 
For a few years now I've taken to taking it game by game and enjoying the development of individual players. With the Tennessee loss last season my season expectations whithered and were only partially restored by the SC butt whipping. Then our Huskies took the tourney like Sherman through Georgia and I just lived in the moment and loved it all.

Now this fall is different. It's like it use to be. We are expected to win. Not only that, but lots of talk about the Huskies going undefeated. So what's the problem? I find myself out of shape for an undefeated run or that shock that comes when somebody elses A+ game comes along.

Anybody have any advice to give on ditching fan worry and approaching the season with Christmas like anticipation?
"partially restored. All due respect, you could have felt inspired after the SC game. This was a road win and it broke their 73 game home winning streak and they were demolished. That doesn't happen just because the stars are aligned. I love the pre- Final 4 show with Lisa Leslie and Renee Montgomery. They were laughingly saying "I don't think you want to play UConn". You have to watch that on youtube.
 
"partially restored. All due respect, you could have felt inspired after the SC game. This was a road win and it broke their 73 game home winning streak and they were demolished. That doesn't happen just because the stars are aligned. I love the pre- Final 4 show with Lisa Leslie and Renee Montgomery. They were laughingly saying "I don't think you want to play UConn". You have to watch that on youtube.
Funny, I have viewed that show with Leslie and Renee twice. Agreed, very good. Sorry, full inspiration did not come out of SC. But I did know SC was no longer a threat. She didn't have a dominant backcourt and they just couldn't score with UConn. Then only one who worried me a bit was the real USC and Juju and injury took care of that.
 
For a few years now I've taken to taking it game by game and enjoying the development of individual players. With the Tennessee loss last season my season expectations whithered and were only partially restored by the SC butt whipping. Then our Huskies took the tourney like Sherman through Georgia and I just lived in the moment and loved it all.

Now this fall is different. It's like it use to be. We are expected to win. Not only that, but lots of talk about the Huskies going undefeated. So what's the problem? I find myself out of shape for an undefeated run or that shock that comes when somebody elses A+ game comes along.

Anybody have any advice to give on ditching fan worry and approaching the season with Christmas like anticipation?
If you are worried (excessively) do not watch the first several games live, but wait until they should be at half-time, and watch it DVR'd (to avoid the anxiety of time outs, foul shots of the opponents, etc. by fast forwarding). If they are accidentally behind at the half, you can sneak a peek at the score inside the 3rd qtr to smooth any anxiousness as they typically had a huge run coming out of the half. Build your confidence in the team, just as the players who are new to Geno & CD's system, tend to need playing time to build their individual confidence.

Kind of like coming back from heart surgery, and needing to avoid watching sports that you are greatly interested in the results.

God bless the UConn Huskies, and your journey!
 
For a few years now I've taken to taking it game by game and enjoying the development of individual players. With the Tennessee loss last season my season expectations whithered and were only partially restored by the SC butt whipping. Then our Huskies took the tourney like Sherman through Georgia and I just lived in the moment and loved it all.

Now this fall is different. It's like it use to be. We are expected to win. Not only that, but lots of talk about the Huskies going undefeated. So what's the problem? I find myself out of shape for an undefeated run or that shock that comes when somebody elses A+ game comes along.

Anybody have any advice to give on ditching fan worry and approaching the season with Christmas like anticipation?
The good news is that Geno will never allow this team to worry about going undefeated or winning another championship......it's one game at a time, always looking to improve as far as their talent can eventually take them......as we witnessed last year, there is such a thing as a good loss and I'd expect another one this season.......frankly I'd prefer loss or two because heading into March/April is tough enough but to go in as an undefeated team adds to the pressure.....
 
If you are worried (excessively) do not watch the first several games live, but wait until they should be at half-time, and watch it DVR'd (to avoid the anxiety of time outs, foul shots of the opponents, etc. by fast forwarding). If they are accidentally behind at the half, you can sneak a peek at the score inside the 3rd qtr to smooth any anxiousness as they typically had a huge run coming out of the half. Build your confidence in the team, just as the players who are new to Geno & CD's system, tend to need playing time to build their individual confidence.

Kind of like coming back from heart surgery, and needing to avoid watching sports that you are greatly interested in the results.

God bless the UConn Huskies, and your journey!
This is sorta how I "watched" our big OOC games last season. Except I stayed away from any sports news until at least a little over two hours after tip off. Then I checked the final score and immediately watched my DVRed copy, but only when we won. The exception was the Championship game, cause when I checked the score, the game was in the 3rd or 4th quarter and I immediately started to watch my recording...from the tipoff.
 
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Ever since the Huskies lost two games in a row a couple seasons ago, I get nervous watching every game because it showed me that on any given day, the unspeakable can happen.
 
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Never saw this before either. Lisa Leslie was the best center in women's basketball for over 20 years. Too bad she is not available for the 2028 Olympics...

RM is one of the best at analysis as well. Hopefully RM and LL are available for the Phoenix FF!!!

Go Huskies!!!!
 
I remind myself that these are still kids playing.. Talented, nice kids that work really hard. I temper my criticism and just accept that they are doing rhe absolute best they can.

Plus, even if they lose a couple, if they stay healthy they will be a force in March.
 
For a few years now I've taken to taking it game by game and enjoying the development of individual players. With the Tennessee loss last season my season expectations whithered and were only partially restored by the SC butt whipping. Then our Huskies took the tourney like Sherman through Georgia and I just lived in the moment and loved it all.

Now this fall is different. It's like it use to be. We are expected to win. Not only that, but lots of talk about the Huskies going undefeated. So what's the problem? I find myself out of shape for an undefeated run or that shock that comes when somebody elses A+ game comes along.

Anybody have any advice to give on ditching fan worry and approaching the season with Christmas like anticipation?
Sure. Just go with the cold hard reality that we are going to be big favorites in every game we play this season and that we are likely a mortal lock to win every game until (possibly) we get to the FF. Now I realize some are cringing in horror at these words, fearing karma etc but I have to say that Tennessee is really the only game that gives me even a little pause and that game is at home, so there you are. I truly believe barring injuries or something completely unforeseen, we will win every game this season. I will of course acknowledge that when we get to the Final Four things get a little dicier but even then, it will take us playing poorly in one of those final two games and I just don’t see that happening as long as we stay healthy!
 
Sure. Just go with the cold hard reality that we are going to be big favorites in every game we play this season and that we are likely a mortal lock to win every game until (possibly) we get to the FF. Now I realize some are cringing in horror at these words, fearing karma etc but I have to say that Tennessee is really the only game that gives me even a little pause and that game is at home, so there you are. I truly believe barring injuries or something completely unforeseen, we will win every game this season. I will of course acknowledge that when we get to the Final Four things get a little dicier but even then, it will take us playing poorly in one of those final two games and I just don’t see that happening as long as we stay healthy!
Man you are really tempting fate.
 
When I watch a game live, my eyes usually focus only on the ball. It’s hard to watch off the ball actions. When I rewatch the game in replays, it’s easier to pay attention to what’s happening off the ball. I suspect the first is merely human nature, and the second is a luxury I can enjoy only later.
 
For a few years now I've taken to taking it game by game and enjoying the development of individual players. With the Tennessee loss last season my season expectations whithered and were only partially restored by the SC butt whipping. Then our Huskies took the tourney like Sherman through Georgia and I just lived in the moment and loved it all.

Now this fall is different. It's like it use to be. We are expected to win. Not only that, but lots of talk about the Huskies going undefeated. So what's the problem? I find myself out of shape for an undefeated run or that shock that comes when somebody elses A+ game comes along.

Anybody have any advice to give on ditching fan worry and approaching the season with Christmas like anticipation?
Rocky, you are a long time Boneyard contributor and a keen b-ball analyst. Now you say you have butterflies because of the chance that UConn might have a loss or two? Really? You have got to be pulling a fast one here but to help you in times of worry have you tried deep breathing? 😄 Come on, snap out of it, Rocky. You're a professional fan and observer. You need to set the example for all of us. Just sit back, analyze and enjoy the ride. It should be pretty darn good. Now breathe deeply and relax.
 
When I watch a game live, my eyes usually focus only on the ball. It’s hard to watch off the ball actions. When I rewatch the game in replays, it’s easier to pay attention to what’s happening off the ball. I suspect the first is merely human nature, and the second is a luxury I can enjoy only later.
Use your god-given peripheral vision. Like when Geno teaches team defense, you actually look between the ball and your man, so you can see both. You see peripherally your man cutting and at the same time you see the ball in the air or the ball penetrating. Geno’s gunna yell at you!
 
The good news is that Geno will never allow this team to worry about going undefeated or winning another championship......it's one game at a time, always looking to improve as far as their talent can eventually take them......as we witnessed last year, there is such a thing as a good loss and I'd expect another one this season.......frankly I'd prefer loss or two because heading into March/April is tough enough but to go in as an undefeated team adds to the pressure.....
Charlie, I don't get this type of thinking about "an undefeated team adds to the pressure". Are you referring to pressure on YOU as a fan that you may harbor on top of any other worries/concerns/anxieties you may have with the team? If so, then I do get it.

However, surely you are not referring to "undefeated" pressure on the team in general or any specific players in particular? By the time March/April arrives, any "pressure" thoughts/concerns should be flushed out on the reality of "one and done", which Geno and staff have oodles of experience in preparing the team and getting them into the proper focus and mindset. And I am referring to not just the six undefeated seasons, but also the three seasons where the coaching staff/team entered the Final Four undefeated but lost in the semis.

I think it is common for fans to transfer their perceptions of stress and pressure onto players and teams.

For high school, AAU, youth leagues, and even perhaps even many WCBB programs, I think it is reasonable to expect players to think about undefeated seasons (or streaks for that matter) heading into the post-season. But not at UConn, which is one of the (many) reasons this program is so special.

For the past four decades, Geno and CD have been wizards at teaching the players on how to successfully overcome stress and pressure situations.

Ironically, I think much of UConn Nation is often concerned about the opposite side of the street: the dwindling opportunities during the season to address and overcome pressure situations that arise playing in a relatively weak conference, or by having some non-conference opponents drop off the schedule.

I think an undefeated season is a distinct possibility this season barring any additional injuries. Will I be surprised if the Huskies lose during the season to a team that is coming in all fired up and playing out of their minds against the defending champs? Nope. It wouldn't faze me at all. My love for this program has always been about the journey, not so much the destination: player development, coming together as a team, beautiful offensive and defensive coordination, constant improvement in the pursuit of perfection, and overcoming the challenges of playing in the greatest WCBB program of all-time. National championships, Final Fours, Conference championships, undefeated seasons, streaks, and individual player accolades are all simply by-products.
 
Sure. Just go with the cold hard reality that we are going to be big favorites in every game we play this season and that we are likely a mortal lock to win every game until (possibly) we get to the FF. Now I realize some are cringing in horror at these words, fearing karma etc but I have to say that Tennessee is really the only game that gives me even a little pause and that game is at home, so there you are. I truly believe barring injuries or something completely unforeseen, we will win every game this season. I will of course acknowledge that when we get to the Final Four things get a little dicier but even then, it will take us playing poorly in one of those final two games and I just don’t see that happening as long as we stay healthy!
Dooooooommmmmmeeeddddd.
 
Used to watch all games live and lived and died with every bounce of the ball. I just can't do it any more, and watch most on tape after I know the result. Still shout at the TV, but the stress level is a lot lower!
 
Use your god-given peripheral vision. Like when Geno teaches team defense, you actually look between the ball and your man, so you can see both. You see peripherally your man cutting and at the same time you see the ball in the air or the ball penetrating. Geno’s gunna yell at you!
I hope this is a joke. HAHAHAHAHA!

Otherwise, I don't exactly know what you're thinking here. If I'm watching a game live, it's hard to take my eyes off the ball. This is a simple fact. Are there other things in my visual field? Yes, of course. But paying attention to them is hard, especially when you're old. I suspect others here appreciate this. The very fact that instant replays exist at all is testimony to what I'm talking about. Buuuuuut -- and here's the important part -- when you're watching live, you have very limited access to instant replay. Hence the value of being able to find whole-game replays online later.
 
I hope this is a joke. HAHAHAHAHA!

Otherwise, I don't exactly know what you're thinking here. If I'm watching a game live, it's hard to take my eyes off the ball. This is a simple fact. Are there other things in my visual field? Yes, of course. But paying attention to them is hard, especially when you're old. I suspect others here appreciate this. The very fact that instant replays exist at all is testimony to what I'm talking about. Buuuuuut -- and here's the important part -- when you're watching live, you have very limited access to instant replay. Hence the value of being able to find whole-game replays online later.
Sorry, no offense. I was trying to be funny, obviously.
This thread has enlightened me as to how difficult it really is to watch a basketball game. Enjoy the season. It should be so awesome! BTW I am going to watch every second as it happens, assuming all the streaming works.
Reminds me of watching fans (sometimes parents) watching a game in a crucial situation and covering their eyes. I think why are they there. It’s to see something special.
 
Sorry, no offense. I was trying to be funny, obviously.
This thread has enlightened me as to how difficult it really is to watch a basketball game. Enjoy the season. It should be so awesome! BTW I am going to watch every second as it happens, assuming all the streaming works.
Reminds me of watching fans (sometimes parents) watching a game in a crucial situation and covering their eyes. I think why are they there. It’s to see something special.
Don't worry. None taken.

I'm in the same boat. Living in New Mexico I have almost no chance to see games in person. So I'm relegated to the second best experience of watching through the narrow keyhole of a TV screen.

I think I almost get the covering the eyes thing -- some games I watch and then I can never watch them again. Like the loss to Arizona in the final four 5 years ago. It's just too painful. Or the loss to SC in the NC game 4 years ago. That one is painful because I think a healthy UConn team could have won that game. But the health gods were not on our side that day. My saner self tells me that even noble defeats are worth watching, but it takes a lot of fortitude.
 
Don't worry. None taken.

I'm in the same boat. Living in New Mexico I have almost no chance to see games in person. So I'm relegated to the second best experience of watching through the narrow keyhole of a TV screen.

I think I almost get the covering the eyes thing -- some games I watch and then I can never watch them again. Like the loss to Arizona in the final four 5 years ago. It's just too painful. Or the loss to SC in the NC game 4 years ago. That one is painful because I think a healthy UConn team could have won that game. But the health gods were not on our side that day. My saner self tells me that even noble defeats are worth watching, but it takes a lot of fortitude.
Any games that we have lost, I will not watch the replay if one is available and if I DVRed it and didn't watch live, I normally won't watch it. Except last year I did watch the USC loss that I didn't get to watch live. I only watched it after reading posts in the Postgame thread and it "sounded" like it was an exciting 4th quarter.
 

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