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Coping Options...

What is your preferred method for dealing with another devastating loss?

  • Wallow in self-pity.

    Votes: 6 7.0%
  • Eternal Optimism - next week another chance to prove ourselves!

    Votes: 24 27.9%
  • Lashing out in frustration at the first person I see.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Alcohol or some other form of self-harm.

    Votes: 18 20.9%
  • Anything to take your mind off of the loss.

    Votes: 16 18.6%
  • Just be done with it - a lost cause.

    Votes: 22 25.6%

  • Total voters
    86

nelsonmuntz

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College football is going through a seismic change because of paying players and it is hard to predict what the other side will look like. There were very few close games in week 1, and I think that trend may continue for a couple of years when it comes to inter-league games until college football gets some self-regulation about what it wants its sport to be.

Getting angry about it doesn’t accomplish anything.
 
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College football is going through a seismic change because of paying players and it is hard to predict what the other side will look like. There were very few close games in week 1, and I think that trend may continue for a couple of years when it comes to inter-league games until college football gets some self-regulation about what it wants its sport to be.

Getting angry about it doesn’t accomplish anything.
That is true…. College football is in a slippery slope with NIL and conference realignment to create super conferences which essentially make everyone else the “minor leagues.”

For example, you see a great player in Triple AAA baseball, we all know it’s just stepping stone to majors. Player exodus has become the norm. The rich get richer.

We are operating under the illusion that anyone can win it all - they can‘t.

Now, one of my least favorite sayings in “be careful what you wish for“ but if the College Football playoffs are any indication - this system is leading to ridiculous blowouts where the supposedly 2nd best team looks like the practice squad by game end.

It may make sense if the big programs want to dominate at all cost - maybe they create their own division and let the ~70 other D1 Teams have their own league.

I know sounds like 1AA but maybe it’s time to regroup, rebrand and have College football like it used to be - interesting to watch.
 
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I’ve been a die hard fan for most of my life, held season tickets as a student and even a few seasons after I graduated. I was a student during the best of times and worst of times. I’ve followed this team through every step of the way, including all the CR ups and downs. I’ve just come to the realization that I need to detach myself from this program and move on. I’ll always support the team, and I’ll always love this team no matter what. But I can’t let this team impact my day/week/month/year anymore. I just gotta let it go. I can’t get mad or disappointed anymore, just not worth it
 
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Was at a Memorial for a mentor of mine who had passed, so out of touch until I was able to check and the score was I think 43-7 or so. So disappointed, so sad. When I read “didn’t even compete” comments, just makes you want to curl up and go to sleep. Not even tempted to drink or throw things. Was afraid of this.
 
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My approach changed during the course of the weekend. First curl up and sleep for a few hours, then alcohol and finally a return to optimism by Sunday. I even booked a trip to Durham today (Monday) since I could get a much cheaper flight to NC compared to BDL from Florida. Now that's a leap of faith.
 

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