That's a sane and rational response and approach. how dare you
I, on the other hand, am fed up, and I"ve got nothing to come back with except irrational anger, and disappointment in losing. I honestly don't know how I will respond to a loss next week. I think I will want the proverbial blood and heads on the platters. I'm actually pretty sure I will, but I'm an emotional type. I can't help it. I get fired up. I absolutely hate losing. I hate it more than anything, it ruins my days.
With that said, my only response, as irrational as it is, is that I think we need more of my attitude from the coaches and players. They need to establish that losing is completely unacceptable. There are just as many mistakes and things to fix and work to do when you are winning, as there are when you are losing, but I guarantee it feels a hell of a lot better to be winning than losing.
I can never accept losing, but I can live with it, when I feel that everybody has given everything they possibly can, and done everything they possibly can to get the win. When you listen to the head coach talk about a player that was in a bad mismatch for the duration of the game, and no adjustments were made, that's not something I can live with.