You make three very good points here while only printing two, some very stelth prose.

I Have followed and attended UCONN sports for decades (mostly both mens / womans bb along with football. I have also preached for years how CT fans have no clue on how to be the next man up or the bench.
" If UConn was beating BU, it would have been the same as the BC game." The crowd sat on their hands until the team threatend to win before getting loud. Traffic issues did cause many to be late but I think you will find the crowd follows the team for emotion rather than providing it.
Not critizing you just a life long observation that you clearly brought out. It is easy when you are winning, the team needs the crowd to be loud when they are down. Not something I have heard much of in my life here.