The reality of it: UConn has little if any friends in the collegiate sports world. Certainly none in the ACC or we would have been in there ahead of Louisville. The B1G's perspective is, "Should we pick the AG school or the one located in NYC's landfill? We'll go with Rutgers. They both smell but Rutgers is closer to The City." And UConn shouted loud and clear that they would be out of the AAC as soon as humanly possible so you can't really blame Aresco and the rest of the AAC for not wanting to shake hands and wish the Huskies the best of luck in their new football adventure. The Big East took the basketball teams back because they need UConn more than UConn needs them and that's the only reason. If the ACC or B1G called tomorrow the Huskies would be out of the Big East faster than they were the AAC.
The collegiate world has lost respect for UConn and the only way you gain that respect back is by winning, winning and more winning to the point where you've won so much that they can't avoid you completely in tournaments or bowl games. And then you beat their face to face on TV and that's your trophy, your measure of success that you bring to recruits and say,"Hey join up with us. We can beat anybody and have."