One of my closest friends has a been going to ND games for over 40 years and has a huge tailgate at each and every home game ( he has missed 4 games in 40 years). I've been to many games with him and can honestly say that, unless you"re a total , ND fans will always be great to you. If you want a special treat, go to a game with the service academies. Everyone goes out of their way to welcome the visitors friend, fans and family.My uncle warned me that I might be in for a hard time because I was wearing the opposing teams colors. I just said "I'm from New England, I'll be fine." I was bracing for the worst s*** talk imaginable, but the Notre Dame fans (credit to them) could not have been nicer and more cordial.